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No help from my Rheumatologist
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This is my first time on this website and it looks like a great place to meet other people that might be going though what I am.

I should mention I have polymyositis and fibromyalgia; I am also a type II diabetic along with a few other health problems.

Here is what is happening just over 2 weeks ago I stopped in my son room to watch a few minutes of TV with him, after laying with him for about 15 minutes I started to get up and my left leg gave out and I went down on the floor. My wife and son helped me get flat on my back on the bedroom floor and I just stayed that way for about 1/2 hour then with the help of my son and wife I was able to get in to my bedroom. The whole time I was having shooting pains in my right side along with muscle spasms like I have never had in my life.

About 2 o’clock in the morning I woke my wife up and told her I needed to go to he ER. So we get to the ER and right away with no tests the ER Doctor says I am passing a kidney stone. Well they did a cat scan and found I had lots of little kidney stones in both kidneys so that is what the ER Doctor decided that is what I had so they shot me up with a bunch of drugs and sent me on my way. Oh the ER doctor said they could not see a kidney stone down low so he figured I passed it already.

The pain never went away so after 3 days I did what the ER doctor said to do and I went and saw the family doctor and he give me some Tramadol after looking at the report from the ER. The Tramadol along with all my other medications did not help one bit.

About 4 days later I decided to see a Urologist that I have seen a couple of times in the past, He looked over the report from the ER and did an X-Ray after looking everything over he said it was doubtful that I pasted a kidney stone and he thought the muscle spasms might be caused from my fibromyalgia and I should get in an see my Rheumatologist as soon as possible.

I have going to this Rheumatologist for over 15 years it is such a pain to get an appointment. So after having a few tense moments and several calls later I got an appointment.

Well Rheumatologist decided he wanted another cat scan done so we got that setup. I asked him what I should do about the pain that was making me walk at a 90 degree angle and double over from pain and spasms. He said he could not do anything until he knew what was wrong. Ok whatever I figured I would try and tuff it out.

So I tried to put up with the pain for several days and then about 1 o’clock in the morning on July 1I doubled up with pain on my left side again muscles were spasms were front and back. So my wife loaded me up took me to the ER again. They doped me up and did the CAT scan that my Rheumatologist had ordered then decided I had better be put in the hospital to try and get the spasms and pain under control.

The hospital in my town has an in house doctor that sees all the patients and then contacts the patients doctor and tell them what is going on and gets input from the patient’s doctor. The patient’s doctor does not come up to the hospital at all.

Well after a couple of days the Doctor had my pain some what under control and the spasms were not as near as bad as when I went in. He also believed it was being caused by my fibromyalgia. He made an appointment for just after I got out of the hospital with my Rheumatologist

The doctor at the hospital gave me a list of medications that I was taking while in the hospital. He told me that I should stay on them along with my normal medications I take.

So I go to my appointment and give the list to my Rheumatologist. It was almost like he took it as an insult that the doctor at the hospital suggested what I should be taking. He would not prescribe any of the meds the hospital doctor thought I should be taking.

So last night I did not sleep I hurt so bad I am worried that I am going to end up in the ER or worst the Hospital again. I called the Rheumatologist and he seemed like he could really gave a crap.

I am at a lost at what to do. I cannot believe that this Rheumatologist that I have had faith in for the last 15 years is treating me like this. I could count on one hand how many times I have had to make appointments that were not my regularly scheduled appointments because of problems I could not get under control. It has been about the 4th time in 15 years that my wife or me had to go though his answering service so we could talk to him and try to figure out what to do.

I am sure tonight will be another sleepless night. Last week I had went 48 hours with out any sleep and that is the night I ended up going to the hospital for the second time.

I hope this makes sense what I am trying to tell. I hope someone has some idea’s on what I should do.

I could understand the Rheumatologist being upset with me if I was a pest and bugged him and his office all the time but I don’t.

I am sorry if these seems to ramble on but I am trying to let anyone that wants to read this know what the last few weeks have been like. I am not the best writer but this is something I needed to get off my chest.
Posted on 07/04/09, 01:07 am
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Reply #1 - 07/04/09  2:11am
" Hugs to you.
I'm sorry about all the crap you have being through.
When i injured myself the doctors didn't know what was going on for nearly 5 years.
After seeing countless doctors i went to another doctor, who sent me off to all new doctors.
It's hard getting treatment and the doctors to listien.
Sometimes a change in doctors can sometimes change the type of treatment we get.Are you able to see a different doctor ??
Ds is a great place to vent as we fully understand how hard it is.
We have all seen our share of doctors and fully understand whats it's like. "
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Reply #2 - 07/04/09  2:25am
" I really feel for you and what your going through. It's as if the dr's are just looking for the "easy" answer instead if finding out what's really going on. I know how bad the pain can be. I have osteoarthritis in both knees and one hip and because of conflicting drugs they haven't been able to do anything about the arthritis or a few other things. It is very frustrating. I hope you can get the help you need "
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Reply #3 - 07/04/09  10:13am
" First of all Beau, I am so very sorry for what you have been going through for the last few weeks, it is unconscionable and abusive! Your Doctor has obviously forgotten his Hippocratic Oath and if I was you, I would fired him and go find myself a new Rheumatologist.
You do NOT need to stay with this man/Doc! He has caused you harm and has not taken care of you as his patient. I had to fired my Orthopedic surgeon after a botched spinal surgery that cost me 3 more surgeries and a life of disability.
You need to find a new Doc right away! Call your local hospital, they usually can refer you to a good Rheumatologist in town. Even if you and your wife have to drive a few miles to get to a good Doc, go ahead and do it, and a few miles is better than a bad Doctor.

Make sure to request all of your records from this Doctor, so you can bring them to the new one so they can understand your history. Ask the hospital for copies of your hospital stay and bring those to your new Doctor also.
Breaking up with a Doctor is hard to do, specially one that you have seen for 15 years, this is almost like a marriage! And you would not stay in a bad marriage, RIGHT? The same applies to this Doctor/patient relationship. What good is it to have a 15 year relationship if there is no benefit for you?
If you have a teaching hospital close to your home, call and try to find their Rheumatology department. Teaching hospitals use the latest medications and applications for your conditions and this could only be a plus in your life.
I wish you lots of luck and please, keep us posted. Happy 4th to you and yours! "
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Reply #4 - 07/04/09  11:41am
" I am not saying this is what your problem is. I am just sharing what happened to me.

I have siatica (sp). When it flares up, I get shooting pains like you describe. Once the nerve gets "all fired up". The muscles start to spasm really bad. It seems strange that muscles should react to nerve pain but that is what happens to me.

I am with the other posters. You need a new doc and fast. Sometimes they get used to patients and no longer hear us.

If it does not offend you, I will put you on my prayer list. Let me know if this is OK with you.
C "
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Reply #5 - 07/05/09  1:56am
" Thanks everyone for the support! it is good to know that other people have gone though what I am going though now.

I do think I am going to find another rheumatologist after the suffering I have had to go though this weekend.

The closest rheumatologist besides the one I go to is over 50 miles away but I think a change would be good.

Another option that I have is I am about 120 miles from Mayo Clinic in Rochester MN. or the University of Iowa hospitals & clinics in Iowa City which is also 120 miles away.

I have been to both in years past but after talking to my wife I might try to get into the Mayo Clinic if it doesn:t take to long. When I went there before I was pleased with how they treated a person.

I used to think I could take a lot of pain but after the last couple of weeks I am not so sure.I know it is really upsetting my 14 year old son to see me hurting like this. The wife said that the other night when they got home from seeing me in the hospital and were getting ready to go to bed he could not stop crying and that is not like my son to be so worried about me.

We have never hidden my health problems from him but I have in the past tried not to let him know how bad I hurt sometimes.

Thanks once again for all the support! "
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Reply #6 - 07/05/09  2:15am
" first of all you should not feel bad about calling your dr. after all this is his job and you are paying him for his serviice or lack there of. You are your own advocate and you need to tell him your feeling and let him know you feel like he just is not showing you the proper attn. you are needing at this time and after 15 yrs of being a faithful and compliant patient you feel he should want to keep you as a patient and want to help you control your pain and spasms. I think you should find another dr. maybe you should find a pain management specialist who would be willing to get to the bottom of this for you. If need be keep going back to the hospital i know this is a pain in itself, but it the meds you were on there helped control your pain then do it maybe the dr who saw you while you were in the hospital can refer you to sommeone he knows for pain managaement. I sure hope you find something for relief, and a caring dr to help you "
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Reply #7 - 07/05/09  8:03am
" OMG Beau,
You live that close to the Mayo Clinic??!!! Go there!
A friend of mine went there with her husband when he was diagnosed with cancer and when every other Doctor in their area told them that he had no chance of surviving, Mayo gave them hope and guess what?? The man is alive, well and in remission!

So, don't think about it twice. 120 miles is nothing! Call Mayo tomorrow and see how you can be seen by one of their professional and wonderful Doctor's. When you have the best so close to home.... why deal with the headache?
Before I moved to the area that I live now, I used to drive 175 miles to see my NS. He was good treated me well and helped me when I had to fired my original surgeon. If I was you I will go for Mayo and forget about this Doctor. Good luck to you. "
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Reply #8 - 07/05/09  9:07pm
" Nerve pain is the worst!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There is no dealing with it, living with it, or ignoring it.

Hope you find some help soon.
C "
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Reply #9 - 07/07/09  3:02pm
" Well I made it though the weekend barely but I did make it. I know why some people give up on life now when they hurt so bad. I am still having the severe pain but at least I am able to sleep a little more.

It has been such a strange begining of the week. Monday the rheumatologist office called in the morning and wants me to go to a gastrologist. Well while I had the nurse on the phone and I explained to her how I feel I was miss treated by the doctor and that after a 15 year relationship with him I had enough. I told her about him not returning my calls and the answering service more or less made him get on the phone and connected us that way. I think I talked to the nurse for over an 1/2 hour. This nurse I have never meet before in all these years. She is the first person in my doctors office seemed like she cared about what was happening to me the last several weeks. I asked to to talk to the doctor and try to figure out what the problem is.

Well later in the afternoon she called back with my appoint to the gastrologist and told me that she got my Doctor to go back though my reports and tests from the last several weeks.

One question that the nurse asked me a couldn't believe was she asked me if I had been taking my methadone? I have been on Methadone for over 2 years for pain and I hate the stuff. I do take it because that is what I am told to do. I have been telling the doctor for the last 8 or so month's that it doesn't do anything anymore. well the nurse said on one of my blood tests they tested to see what my Methadone level was and it said I did not have any in my system. Now how can I not have any in my system when I take 4-10mg pills 1 every 6 hours. She said that the lab had enough left of blood or whatever bodily fluids they use to check for methadone and they were going to retest for it. I should have the results late this afternoon or ealry tomorrow morning.

Has anyone else on here been on Methadone for long term? Does anyone know how they could come up with no Methadone in my system when I do take it like I am supposed to besides screwing up the test.

Here is something that I had not thought about if another test comes back negative are they going to think I have been selling it on the street? I had not even thought of that until my brother in law who happens to be a police officer called to check on how I was doing and he brought it up. How am I going to prove I have been taking the methadone? This is really starting to suck! "
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Reply #10 - 07/07/09  3:36pm
" Beau,
This has not happened to me personally and I do take 60 Mg's of Methadone a day, but there are medication's, other medication's that you might be taking that can skewed the results of a blood/urine test. So if they retest your blood and it comes back negative for Methadone, remember to ask the Doctor and the Nurse to check the other medications that you are taking and make sure that they are not the culprit of what is going on.

You ask how you can prove that you are taking your medications. Well..... you have a wife, family members, etc, that are your witnesses to you taking your medication, that is number one! Number 2, you can take your bottles of medication to him and have them count the meds in front of you... that way he can see that you are taking your medication as prescribed. If after 15 years of knowing you and treating you this guy thinks that you are not been truthful to him, do you think that you want to continue seeing him??? I wouldn't!

And again with the Mayo Clinic been so close to your home, I would be calling them and making an appointment to see a real Rheumatologist over there that can really help you figure out what is going on. Don't give up! You have nothing to worry about! You have taken your medications as prescribe, is up to them to figure it out now. Just stand strong and do what you need to do to help yourself and to get to the bottom of this. You take care and know that we understand what you are going through.
Take care,
Tipper "

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