What is Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
Chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS), also known as myalgic encephalomyelitis (ME), post-viral fatigue syndrome (PVFS) and various other names, is a syndrome (or group of syndromes) of u...
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Rejection, abandonment, insult, in addition to CFS
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Hi everyone,
You all know how much it is difficult to deal with CFS alone, then imagine the knightmare when it is associated with emotional abuse, loneliness, rejection, insult, humiliation, bullying, rejection,..etc. Horrible, isn't it. I live in a place where people make fun,hurt, insult, under-estimate,humiliate & reject patients with CFS, only for bullying purposes. Others would call you lazy, dellusional, psycho, halusinationg, crazy, or whatever names they come with. Regarding close family members, they consider me as a burden they are forced to handle, but don't want to, so bad treatment & emotional abuse is what i got from them.( They consider me as a curse on them) So here i am, HouseBound, sleeping 12 hours in the daylight, & staying awake all night, completely alone, with no one to talk to, no place to go out to, & nothing to do, add to that the emotional pain i have from the insults, rejection, name calling, ..etc, & no one around me cares, they are just enjoying their lives & don't bother whether i suffer or die, it's my own crisis to deal with, & they are ready to do whatever hurts me or destroys me as long it serves their interests. Any advice, help please. Posted on 11/06/09, 01:11 pm |
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Hi all,
Well it seems that i'm not the only one suffering from this twisting behaviour of people who won't admit the truth, regardless of how evident it is. Actually, this is just pure bullying, only intended to hurt us. Your stories are as if you're talking about my life, since i faced exactly what you talked about. You're completely right, the dysfunction is in them, & not in us, because you know, even if i deal with a stupid person, i don't let him feel inferior & dump or invaluable, instead i'll respect him, & try to lift up his self esteem. I have started a new discussion called" the sun is dark" ( since that's what these people are saying) to talk about that in depth, since this completely applies to our case of CFS, in addition to the other life issues. Good luck all. 
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Hi all,
Rubywolf, i liked your idea about doing & donating to leave a mark in your life, that's a great way to use your hobbies. I don't knit, i'm bad at it. I like music, play the piano, i am very good in technology ( computer, electronics). I love nature, trees, water. I also love fashion a lot, & interior design. I am interested in health & fitness. So most of my hobbies are self enjoyable, i'll try ( & you help me too) to figure out how to use it in more giving & donating way. Thanks
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