Child Support & Custody Support Group

Would you be putting your daughter in harms way by allowing him to see her? I guess I'm confused with why you wouldn't allow him to see her even without a court order?

and I've NEVER heard of a law that says you MUST answer your phone...that sounds a bit over the edge..

My ex when he gets mad he cuts himself and has try to kill himself in the pass and also makes numbers of threats to us. And now he is telling me that i have to let him see her and let him take her away and when he call we have to pick up the phone. I mean now i still letting him see her and talk to her on the phone but i just want it to know do i have to because he is telling me that i HAVE to.

I'm not sure what state you are in it varies from state to state.
As for Texas he can get a temporary order for her to have visitations with her...but if you feel it is unsafe you can always get them supervised. As for the phone calls buy a recorder and record them...i know here they are allowed in court as evidence. Do what ever you have to do to protect your daughter that is all that matters. If he continues to say he will cut or kill himself..that is his issue. He needs help. But i would ask your lawyer to instate a temp. order allowing you to remain custody of the child...what ever you do DO NOT allow her to go with him..because when he fails to return her the police will tell you he is the parent too and has just as much right as you do.

Oh believe me i don't want him to take her because of his behavior and the threats that he has make to us. I just hope my therapist recommendations will help me at the court. My therapist she knows about him cuting himself and has try to kill himself in the pass and the threats that he make to us,i bring all that up when we went to therapist so i hope her recommendations will help me. I am do everything try to protect my daughter from him,he is not safe for her to be alone with. I want a sole custody so that way i can protect her i mean he still can come and see her but just can't take her away. Do you know what else should i do?

Talk to your lawyer. These are serious issues. He should only be allowed supervised visits and monitored phone calls.

It's not the law but the judge would look at you alot better if you let your child and their father have a relationship, I know you don't want to, I did'nt but we have to in a sense!

There is alot the things that he say to my daughter and me when he first came home.I remember that one day he actually told me daughter this he say baby i have to go pee do you want to come watch me pee. that piss me off so bad i told him what the hell did you say that is sick what the f@#$ is wrong with you and he say she don't know what i say but i told him but i do and that is so sick. I want a supervised visitation and a monitored because there is been alot of time he say things to her he think because she doesn't know but i don't want my daughter to hear things like that or be around the behavior and the environment like that i hope the court can give me that.