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I would most certainly be asking your lawyer to bring this up in court. it seems like your ex is mentally unstable and your child/ren should not be left alone in his care. he needs supervision until he proves to the court that he is stable. you may want to ask your lawyer to try and have a court order psychiatrict evaluation done, and be on medication in order to see them

you know my husband is very good talker and even i therapist say if he get a evaluation he might even bet the system so to tell you the true even if he is stable i am still afraid of what would he do to us because he is going to be so piss he has threatening me before saying he'll fuck me up if i fuck him up. and he even say if i can't have her no one can. i hope my lawyer will bring this up in court. do you know if you go to court you get to say anything? cause if he didn't bring this up i'll.

I have come from an abusive relationship. If you can prove it the court will go in your favor. Ask your lawyer about a restraining order that is granted through the court ( I can remember what kind). If you can get that you could get suprevised visitation and all rights to your children ( I did). Actualy you don't need a lawyer to get the restraining order. Do you live in Canada? If so you can go to the court house and ask for the paper work to fill out ;)

No i live in USA and i have try to get a order protection and the person told me that is better when you go to court for the divorced thing that ask them there so you don't have to go to court different time and right now i am still waitting my lawyer haven't tell me anything yet so. Hopefully i can use the letter my therapist write but is only a recommendations that is all she can write but unless he say ok for her to say whatever then she can go on and on and on.

I don't know if i can use this a court he has always force me to have sex with him most of the time he doesn't care about my feeling even though i says no he'll force and do it anyway but i don't know how to proof it to the court?

I was forced to have sex too, and sufferd beating too with no proof. When you swear your statment is true it should be able to go to court. I had no proof for any of the abuse I suffered, the only proof I had is when he assulted me in the bar and the police showed up. With the tharipist and your statment you should be able to get what you need. ;)

I hope so because my tharipist say with out him saying she can say whatever she want she is only can give a recommendations so i really hope it'll work. I am so scared he'll get to take my little girl. As now i still allow him to come and see her when he wants because i don't think i can stop him from seeing her because i think the court doesn't like that well that is what i hear i don't know anything about the divorced thing or the custoday or the visitation thing so whatever he say i let him do it beside when he wants to take her away then i say no. Why are the womens get treat lt like this it sucks.

No I don't think you can totaly stop visitaion but you may put boundries, such as supervised and limiting him from leaveing your state with her. My ex can't even leave my town with my children. When you make your statment be sure to put every little thing in it. Your fears is the most important, you must let the court know that he is a thret to you and your child. Be as discriptive as you can, and any little thing that you can think of even if you don't think it is important put it in there. Even if your statment is four or five pages long it is ok.

Ok so when do you make your statment? before you go to court? Oh i don't mean totally stop the visitation i want the court to give him a supervised visitation and can't take her out of town or state or anywhere and do you know how long is the supervised visitation good for?

You need your statment for your court, Did your lawyer ask you for one?? If not they should.
I am not sure about there but here supervised visitation dose not change unless I give it up or my ex takes me back to court to have it removed.