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11 year old acting out, wants to live with her dad
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my 11 year old was fine until school let out for the summer, she has been brainwashed by her father that I am unsafe and I am not stable. He is taking me to court again for the same reasons as he has before, saying I have to many boyfrieds, which I have had 3 in 9 years since our divorce. I have a voice recorder missing and neighbors have seen my ex and his wife going thru bushes by my house, so now my little one is stealing from me to help her get to move in with her dad.
My ex is a contol frea, calls at least 3 times every day to find out what she is doing and where she is at.
Posted on 07/26/09, 09:07 am
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Reply #1 - 08/03/09  4:11pm
" I dont see nothing wrong with a father doing the impossible to get his daughter i have mine and living with me and i would do anything necesary to keep it that way if hes married its better she sees 1 person married than diifernt men every so often but thats my opinion "
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Reply #2 - 11/02/09  3:31pm
" First of all, if you two are divorced, what business is it of his how many boyfriends you have. I do not think 3 in the last nine years is bad, as long as, they were there for you and your child.

My daughter is 12 and when we moved back home after 6 years, she, too, was brainwashed into believing that I am this horrible person and that I cared nothing about her, only hurting her father. Well, when it came time for us to go to court, I have her every weekend. She now sees that Mom is not this big, ugly, ogre, her father and his NEW wife says I am.

My advise to you is to play everything close to the vest. Do not confide anything to your daughter and put her in a position to tell on you to her father. Research everything you can get your hands on. What they are doing to you is called harassment and if it continues then I would call the police. He has no rights or claims to you and if was so concerned about his daughter then why did the two of you split in the first place.

Keep your chin up, your enemies close, and love your child beyond distraction. Remember 18 is the year the sentence with the ex is over! I have 6 more years of my sentence!!

Take care. "
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Reply #3 - 11/03/09  2:29pm
" To angelndis, our situation sound so alike!! After being a full-time mother to weekends how do you deal with that emotionally. I am having a hard time, do you ever get used to them being gone? "

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