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This will be alot... i'm really upset right now and i feel like i really want to get this all out :(
My "bestfriend"'s name is Anabel and she really is VERY mean to me. I sound childish saying like shes "mean" to me, but thats pretty much the truth. I only put up with her because if i dont idk what will happen to my other friends. Paige, my other bestfriend is sweet&I love her. We both put up with anabel, Paige is so 2faced with her its rediculous. Anabel use's the information ive told her about my past & depression to..idk how to discribe it.. tourcher me? I just wanted her to be someone that will lisen to me. Ive put up with her for 3 years, since I've moved from NY-FL. I have the best of friends in NY and i visit almost every couple of months and stay the summers. I deal with anabel during the year because if I dont i feel like I'd be alone. My mom says im like in a "abusive relationship", just verbel. She calls me ugly, pathetic, makes fun of everything I do. The worst is she makes fun of my Tourettes. Shes rich and just because im middle class she seems like thats something to say about me aswell. I've told her about my dad & moms fast. The many cheatings, my half sister I dont see, and all the abuse. She backfires when shes mad and calls me "trashy" because of that... I feel like i'm complaining because so many other people have more problems then me :/ Just everyone says that Im OVERLY nice and I let everyone walk all over me. Idk what to do anymore, I keep saying to myself 2 more years and im back in NY for college, but that doesn't get me threw the fact that im going to remember my highschool memories as crap. What should I do? Posted on 09/29/09, 08:09 pm |
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Anabel is NOT your friend! It seems like she does these things to you so she can feel better about herself (and somewhat superior). That's just wrong, and you don't need her.
Be yourself, find other friends. If Paige doesn't like you anymore because you left Anabel, then she wasn't your friend either. Treat people the way you want to be treated, but at the same time, don't let them walk all over you. There are people who will not want to be your friend because you have Tourettes (trust me, i know, because I have dwarfism and a few other issues). But, that's THEIR problem, not yours. But there are also people who can look past your issues and see you for who you are. Those are the ones you need to be friends with. Be yourself, be confident, don't ever doubt yourself or let others give you the idea that you are worthless or a doormat. You are just as important as the next person and judging by your avatar, you're also very pretty. Remember that! Drop me a line if you ever need to talk! 
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Thank you so much, I will try to drift away from her and that little "clique". Its just so hard, after being "friends" for 3 years. Thanks for your advice though. Yes tourettes make everything 10 times harder, and thanks for understanding me! Ill friend you :) and i hope your feeling good!
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Hi taydaisyf, What a nasty person she is. There is noway you should have to put up with what she does,for anything.lilstubby is correct,she is not your friend. My son was bullied on a daily basis at school. He has Autism Spectrum Disorder. He was verbally and physically abused. For the past 6 years and 3 and a half months,he has been home educated and is now happy and safe. He will be 15 in January. He does on occasions get calledl names when out in public and I step in and say something to the person concerned. Most people are morified that they have said something to a person wth a disability. You need to have good memories of high school as happy ones. People like her just get my back up. Please do something before you get really hurt.
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You deserve better. Don't put up with that nonsense. Your worth more then that. I hope you feel better.
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