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My cancer is back in the other breast. I just want to kick myself for letting my ex talk me out of taking that one with the other 6 years ago. The hardest part about all this is he always told me that I had done something wrong to "deserve" my cancer and now I am still paying for it. Does anyone really "deserve" cancer? Time to go cry a little....
Posted on 06/19/09, 10:06 pm
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Reply #1 - 06/20/09  7:28am
" I am so sorry :( No one deserves cancer. To say you did was a very mean thing to say. I will pray for you. I can't imagine what you are going through. Hugs "
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Reply #2 - 06/21/09  10:02am
" ((Hugs))... No one deserves cancer and no one deserves to hear such a horrible comment. You are in my prayers.

Jen "
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Reply #3 - 06/21/09  3:54pm
" I'm so sorry to hear the cancer is back...you'll be in my thoughts and prayers. Oh and by the way, I think somebody needs to pray for him...he sounds like a miserable excuse for a human being. "
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Reply #4 - 06/22/09  1:35am
" Hi Lady, Don't be hard on yourself..you made what you felt was the best decision at that time. That's all anyone can do. (I understand how angry you are about listening to your ex...but all you can do now is move forward with the information you have.)

Oh...and get RID of the loser forever! Don't ever talk to him again...he has some serious problems to say something like that to you. I believe in karma...God help him if he ends up with a serious illness.

No one has done anything to deserve cancer...what a frickin jerk he is...and that's being nice. I'm glad he's your ex...keep it that way!!!! His day will come.

So where are you in treatment right now? Are you scheduled for a biospy next...surgery...what? Just focus on getting rid of your cancer now so you can start back on that "Road to Recovery"....and believe me...you will. :) Update me when you have a chance. Hang in there...were here for you.

Chelee "
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Reply #5 - 06/22/09  10:34am
" Your ex is an idiot. The good news is that he has to live with being an idiot and all that comes with it and you do not.

Of course nobody 'deserves' cancer. It is not a matter of fault. You also did not deserve to have someone around you who not only was not supportive but was destructive toward you.

I am sorry your cancer has returned. I cannot imagine how difficult this is for you. At least you can make decisions this time without Mr. Negativity around.

I wish you love and light and a quick return to perfect health. Kudos to you for reaching out to peoople here who understand what you are going through and can help without the judgment. I hope you have a strong family & friend support network around you now - you need and deserve it.

- Diane "
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Reply #6 - 06/26/09  3:39pm
" None of us deserve cancer. Don't even consider that statement from your ex. There's a good reason he is now your ex. I'm sorry it is back after 6 years. Stay strong. You got through it once, you can do it again. "

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