Breast Cancer Support Group

It is difficult to loose a parent, no matter how old one is,you might have a reactive depression for losing her, you can go to bereavemente support group,I lost my beloved mother 18 months ago,I still cry,being Roman Catholic I know her soul is with me, I have a small place with the photos of my family members gone,Jesus and Hid Mother, I light candles and pray. I miss her terribly.we were very close,like you I lost interest in everyting,my doctor gave some medication for a couple of months, People mourn in diferent ways,I think you need also to see a doctor and if he can give you something to help.
remember the happy times, many do not have loving parents, and she lives in you,when you have children you will see her in them,I lost a young excellent brother, my best friend and my son is carbon copy of him. Your mom fought a terrible and hard battle, maybe on her name you can participate in October in activities where you live,so first you see a doctor,look for a support group,to go in person not on line.
It will get better,but the greast love is not forgotten,she will be with you always.l send you a big hug,your mom will not like that you do not go ahead,take care, let us know how you are doing.

Hi Amanda. I lost my mom 26 years ago when I was 23. She died from a different type of cancer at the age of 57. I was very close to her and even today, I catch myself thinking "I need to call her about this or that" You never forget and you will always miss her. However, the pain will lessen over time. January was very recent, and it is OK to be sad. If you have friends or family, now is the time to be with them and talk about the good things you remember. It is normal and necessary to grieve, otherwise you can't get past it. All yourself to go through this and it will get easier. Wishing you all the best.

So sorry to hear of your loss. You should read the book "Chicken Soup For the Soul: Messages from Heaven"...it really makes you think.
also, if you'd like to "Talk" to your Mom, and write her daily letters to "Heaven" You can go here:
http://www.toheavenwithlove.com/
It's a really neat site and you can put a memorial to her as well.

im so very sorry.your mum sounded like a wonderfull person.
sending you my love
xx

my condolences for your loss. As I read your words of tribute for your mom... I couldn't help but think.."thank God for a mom worth missing" I believe that our loved ones are never truly gone as long as we remember them. I'll be praying for you.

I feel your pain, and I understand it. I lost my mother to breast cancer 5/5/12, watching her suffer was very difficult for me. She was the only thing that held this family together. I miss her very much and would have taken her place if I could. I still try to call her and catch myself and stop. It still has not hit me yet. I really feel numb and fear the day it catches up. What I do know is that the old saying time heals all wounds is true. I lost my dad 8 years ago and wow very difficult but its been 8 years and it has gotten easier. Hang in there.

I know how you feel, honeybear. I lost my mom to breast cancer in September 2012. It does get better though. Trust me :)

You should visit this website.
http://www.toheavenwithlove.com/
You can send her a letter and "talk" to her every day. Set up a memorial, light a candle. etc. It's a beautiful website.

I lost my mom as well. Oct 16th 2012. She wasnt ready to go and I obsess over how I could have prevented it... I know what you mean about needing something more! I just want to say im here for you if you want to talk.. Its just sad! We need our moms.... Im 33 years old and have a two kids under 3.... Its going to be ok. We will be strong and keep going and one day we will see them again..

Grieving is a process and over time the intensity of the pain you have will lessening sowhat. Speak of her often and freely...... remember with laughter the funny things she would do or say. Also you can find solace in the scriptures (Acts 24:15).