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With everything going on in my life, I still find myself back here. Reading for the most part, but posting more than I have in probably a year or more. Today I just had to hear my daughters voice, don't get me wrong we talk almost every other day. We talked for quite a while, when it was time to go and she told me that she loves and misses me and I told her the same. For some crazy reason I added up in my head the months that have gone by. This weekend it has been 6 months to the day that they have been gone. It seems like an instant I never in a million years thought I would ever not kissed and held my daughter for a period that long. She is the best thing that has ever happended to me. I stopped her quickly before she hung up and told her that she was with out a doubt the best part of me that ever was and or will be. She knew I had started to cry and she said Don't worry Daddyo I love you and everything is going to be alright, you are in my heart. After we hung up just sitting here thinking, My God she is only 5. I have no words except I never new I would miss her like I do
Posted on 11/08/09, 09:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/08/09  9:32pm
" (((((R))))) I know I miss my girl when she spends the weekend with her Dad...and that's just 2-3 days. "
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Reply #2 - 11/08/09  9:35pm
" I can't even imagine. ((cabin boy)) "
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Reply #3 - 11/08/09  9:36pm
" Bro,

I am so glad you feel this way and your Daughter said what she said to you.

How Special for you guys to have this wonderful connection.

You love her and she loves her daddy,

Peace "
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Reply #4 - 11/08/09  9:37pm
" She has you in her heart, it dosen't get any sweeter than that!

I'm not trying to be nosy, but do you not have visitation? "
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Reply #5 - 11/08/09  9:52pm
" Sorry you're so far apart from one another ... I know it's a killer for you. Hope the distance changes in time. "
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Reply #6 - 11/08/09  9:54pm
" She is a lucky child to have her daddy miss her so. My hear is with you. "
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Reply #7 - 11/08/09  9:55pm
" Hugs! "
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Reply #8 - 11/08/09  10:00pm
" I know it may not be the "healthiest" thing to say, but, if it weren't for my two beautiful kids, I don't know that I would have made it through this weekend in one piece!!! "
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Reply #9 - 11/08/09  10:59pm
" My heart goes out to you man. I 'm about to experience this separation from my children, do you have any advice on how to get through the day to day? "
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Reply #10 - 11/08/09  11:03pm
" once again, I realize ( again) that I am exactly where I need to be( as far as DS goes). I guess I have put myself in the survival mode busy busy busy, looking back I without even realizing it I just didn't want to hurt, well I was only fooling myself. Aother tough year is almost over, I can only hope and pray things will get somewhat better in this up and coming year. As far as visitation goes I'm suposed to have her the week after Christmas and a month in the summer with a clause stating any other visits must have a two week notice. This year being a realist there is about a 1 in about 1000 chance I will be able to see her this Christmas or the week after. Business is tough as we all know but this week there is some hope something might break with my second job, that I've had for the last 9 months, I'm praying for God's will what ever that might be to prevail, cause whats going to happen is going to happen, I just have to keep doing what's right in my heart.
Thanks to all who have been there for me, this is a wonderful place filled with wonderful Peeps
Thanks Again.......
Much Love and Hugs to All "

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