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Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...
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He actually had the nerve to say "I'll see you later" when he was leaving after visiting the kids the other day. I just looked at him and turned around and walked away. Like I have told him before I am not your friend, you have never told me bye or anything else when you leave so why start now. Also he was supposed to come and get alot of his stuff today and he didn't show, just like he didn't show last week when he said he was going to come and get it. I can just imagine the excuses he is going to come up with. I just want to get this hard part over with already!
Posted on 11/08/09, 02:11 am |
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I find him trying to be my friend very difficult. I had to put a boundary there. It's hard for me because I want to be caring, but sometimes I have to take care of myself first.
It's hard. ((hugs)) 
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Oh, Diannie, I know it's hard. Give him a deadline (a reasonable one) and tell him if he doesn't pick up his stuff by that time. you will dispose of it. That may get him focussed.
Lynne
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I have given him a resonable deadline, and still here we are. I just don't get it, if you want out so bad, get your shit! He could of at least called or sent a text saying he wasn't going to make it.
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It's always so much harder when they are nice. Hugs!
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Guess I'm lucky--mine never contacts me and even if he does, never says hello or good-bye. He is the ultimate rude person on the phone.
I feel sorry for you folks who have to keep in contact with your ex's because of the kids. Must be really difficult.
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