Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Don't do it. Sit on the phone, or hide it somewhere....just don't do it.

I won't do it, my friend came over as fast as he could and took away my keys and hid my shoes..

He found me on the floor crying..and he will stay here with me..

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Wonderful friend.

I'll never forget those days. I know how hard they are. It takes time, but they do pass. Minutes can seem like hours in the meantime though...

I am so glad that you had someone to call. It was awful for me not to call that first year, but I knew that I wanted to change my life for the better, and that meant that he could not be in it, so I sat on my hands, I cried, I walked, lifted weights, and came here. Keep thinking of what you want your life to be, and go in that direction. My ex was not anyone that I was going to go back too, for the 5th time. I deserved better, and you do too!! (((Kitty))))

Last night I had a few moments of weakness, and instead of remembering my stbx for who he is now, I went back into time and remembered him when I 'thought' the marriage was good..And I wanted that back, even just for a moment.

I am grateful that my friend dropped everything to drive all the way out here last night to make sure I stayed safe.

One of my deadbolts requires a key both on the inside and out, him taking my keys and my shoes squelched my plans on making a fool of myself by wanting to see my stbx.

I am going on 9 months since the date of separation..It has gotten easier with time, but adding alcohol to the mix was not a good idea..For now on I will make sure I have a designated human here with me if I decide to drink again..

"designated human".....good idea.

The guy came to your house and punched you in the face! you arent missing him your just lonely.

Red, you are correct, I was lonely..

If I ever get into a pity party, please feel free to remind me over and over again that my stbx came over here and punched me in the face..

I still have trouble chewing on my right side because of that punch.

I think as time wears on, the things that someone does to us starts to fade leaving the better memories to come to light more then the bad ones. it takes someone to punch us in the face again to remember that we just need to remember the "real" reasons we are no longer with that person...

my wish is for you to get to that place on your own so you don't need anyone but yourself to save you from you.