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I was not going to write about this anywhere, and just hold my feelings in but it is Friday and I need to let it out. I feel so uncomfortable trying to tell my friends, family and even SISTER how and what I am feeling.....Wednesday night I came home really late, my sister wasn't home. I got in the shower and got out of the bathroom and all the lights were out, something was wrong and I ran to my bedroom turned on the light and grabbed my cellphone...as soon as I turned to the door there he was. He had broken into my place through my patio. he grabbed me and choked me, he said "Did I do anything to you for you to get the law involved" I begged him to let me go, he pushed me onto my bed and I fell in reach to mace I hid under my pillow. I kicked him as he got close and then I sprayed him and ran to my neighbors and called the cops. He was gone. They have not found him. I am scarred out of my mind. When they catch him he will go to jail for at least a year. I am hurt and scarred, why are people so sick and disgusting..........If the mace had not been there or if this happened in any part of my home, what was he really going to do to me :(
Posted on 11/06/09, 07:11 pm
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Reply #1 - 11/06/09  7:32pm
" wow,i hope they catch this creep and put him away for a long time.please take care of yourself. "
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Reply #2 - 11/06/09  7:36pm
" Oh karenna...I am so sorry about this..Oh my I am so thankful that you are okay..Wow you kept your head with having the mace. I a so amazed at the nerve of this guy..Big hugs to you.. "
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Reply #3 - 11/06/09  7:36pm
" You shouldnt be alone until they catch him. can you stay with family? "
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Reply #4 - 11/06/09  7:37pm
" I am staying with my parents and commuting until they find him and I could not believe he actually did this either "
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Reply #5 - 11/06/09  7:39pm
" I can't imagine how terrified you must be. I'll be praying for you! "
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Reply #6 - 11/06/09  7:45pm
" Oh Karenna, I am shaking for you. That's got to be so hard. Are you seeking counseling? It might be good for you.
I remember how hard it was when my house was broken into, but I wasn't home when it happened. But it was a long time before I would go home alone after that.

Stay safe honey
(((hugs)))) "
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Reply #7 - 11/06/09  8:28pm
" I am very freaked out but I will be trying even harder to stay safe, and more then likely I won't be going home alone for a LONG time! "
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Reply #8 - 11/06/09  8:29pm
" You should talk to your counseler about all of this. Stay safe. "
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Reply #9 - 11/06/09  8:48pm
" Stay safe Karenna...I hope they catch him. "
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Reply #10 - 11/06/09  8:49pm
" Glad you had that mace as well as the restraining order...This guy is a extreme threat to your life. It could have been worse. Stay there with your parents until he is arrested. He's stalking you...so you NEED to move, change your number, etc. The authorities have been notified....yeah? I'm sorry you are going through this. "

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