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I don't fear loneliness. I had and knew love, even if it ended in disaster, I can always remember the few good times there were and embrace those. I would rather not be lonely forever, but it doesn't scare me at this point.

Falling in love doesn't scare me either, its trusting someone that frightens the shit out of me. Trust is blind faith, nothing more, but unfortunately, my heart (the broken pieces that I was able to scoop up anyway) is now under lock and key. It'll be a long road back before I trust myself to open it back up to anyone.

At this point in my life, I really don't know. I went 7 whole years without a relationship and I survived. On the other hand, being with someone, feeling loved and loving them can be a wonderful thing. It's the heartache that I fear the most.

I choose love over loneliness, the hard part is finding it.

I always thought I would choose love.However, since my world of love and idea of love has been so turned upside down.I think at this point I choose loneliness.Either way of late Im still crying myself to sleep.sighhhhhhh

I don't fear loving again. I fear loving again for the wrong reason.

I don't fear loving, but I'm learning I need the solitude of a quiet time to better know myself. The dark seasons of our lives help us to appreciate the new growth when it happens.

Find yourself first. You can only be happy in "Love" if you are happy "Alone".

I want "Love", but I am taking time to be "Alone".

The worst for me is being lonely while lying in bed next to hubbie. I'll try alone next time.

I choose love... I still believe in it and I know it exists.

I have loved and lost and I've been alone for the last 3 years and while I'm lonely... I don't mind being alone.

Good question. The distance of the head and heart is something I struggle with.