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I fear both

I'm totally screwed....

I'm okay with being alone and, I have no fear in loving again. In due time, I believe that I will find someone to share my life with and to love him and pray that he will love me for me.

Companionship, only natural that is.

umm LOVE !! been lonely my whole life ..

I do not wish to be alone the rest of my life, but if it is that way so be it,, i had ventured out and found love again, but it was not meant to be i guess, and yes it hurt, as bad or worse than the first loss of the love of my life,, but that will not keep me from trying to find love again,, yes it stunted the process, but it will not make me live in fear of being hurt again,, just a little slower to get back into the water,, although it was a slow process the first time,, but in answer i will not live in fear, but i do not wish to live alone, but i will if circumstances dictate it..

I remember when my dad died many years ago. My mom told me almost immediately that she would never marry again and she never did. They were married over 30 years and though I know she loved him I could tell they weren't IN love. I sort of feel the same way. After 21 years of marriage, I'd like a break....a long break. Then we'll see :)

I don't fear being alone because I know that I will never truly be alone. I will always have my family and my friends by my side. Right now there is still some fear not so much in loving someone again but in opening myself up to where I can be hurt again. I will continue to believe in love however and when the time is right I will put myself in the position to meet someone again.

I am ok being in love, and being alone, but i am NEVER ok when i am lonely.

even when I was with my stbx I always had a dream of someone else. So, I guess in answer to your question: yes I do believe there is hope again.

if I had to pick being alone or in a bad relationshion I pick being alone