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Fighting the Tears
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It has been almost 2 weeks since my fiance left and I have very good days and not so good days. I am fighting back tears almost every moment I have free, and wanted things to be different so badly. I made some big mistakes, and so did he and we really are not a good match I realize that, but why does it still hurt so much? I am mad I keep crying because I want to just forget it and move on. I try to focus on why it didn't work to help stop hurting, but all I can keep going back to are all of the good times we had, and it hurts me so much. I want those good times back, and hate what has happened. I know time heals all wounds I just wish it would hurry up and do that already!!!
Posted on 07/04/09, 03:07 pm |
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i'm right there with u girl 
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I understand....
Sometimes relationships are not fair, mine especially. But, I have noticed if I try to disect every stitch of it I will be worse off, and not willing to do anything other than focus on the "whys"- quite honestly there is more to life than worrrying and driving myself up the wall for the whys. Make sense. Just hang in there, all he did was do you a favor by leaving and opening another door in your life to make it better for you in the future. The next time that comes around, in a sick sort of way you will be happy it went the way you went, and you will be so much stronger, wiser, and wont take no BS off anyone!!! Good luck, and keep that chin high!
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Yes, Time is the healer. Just keep talking about it and letting it out, don't stuff it. Were all here for you. I too wish things would hurry up and get over, but they don't and there is a reason for it.
Peace and hugs!!
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It will hurt, for a while, but it gets better. You just have to be patient.
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It is still very fresh... many of us have been in our situation for a very long time and still feel this way...we are all different in when the tears and why's will stop. Sometimes we think they are done with but something sets us back. Hang in there and give yourself time. Being here helps. I am so sorry you are hurting. It really sucks.
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2 weeks really isn't that long at all. It hurts because you loved him and even though you said you know it isn't a good match, you grieve for what should have been between the two of you.
The time for healing is different for every person. Just stay strong and when it is too tough hang out here and we will help you. When you are thinking about it too much try journaling, I was never really into it until I found this site and it really does help.
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