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if your X had cheated on you in your marriage and now they say they have changed, would you give them another chance?
Posted on 07/04/09, 12:07 am
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Reply #11 - 07/04/09  1:28am
" I am currently trying to give her another chance. I feel like I could go either way right now. "
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Reply #12 - 07/04/09  4:19am
" i did give her a chance ten years later we are geting devorced "
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Reply #13 - 07/04/09  4:36am
" she did cheat, six times. And she was never sorry for any of them, nor did she ever love me or intend on keeping her word that she made at the altar, even though it was her own grandfather who was marrying us.

No, monogamy and marriage in this country are a farce. People should stop believing in the institution of marriage and just live together until one or the other cheats, gets unhappy, abuses the other or gets addicted to porn, then separate. "
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Reply #14 - 07/04/09  5:16am
" Mine had a 15 yr. affair. What scared me more than another affair was the way he could lie with the most honest face. AND the deception was over whelming. Couldn't trust him for anything after all that, I tried for another 5 yrs after finding out for certain but finally came to the realization that had I not ended up in the physic ward he would never have come back.

No, never. "
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Reply #15 - 07/04/09  10:32pm
" No I was unable to. "
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Reply #16 - 07/04/09  11:02pm
" knowing what i know now Hell Fuken No "
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Reply #17 - 07/04/09  11:09pm
" I gave mine an second chance...Im getting divorced again 3 years later.....it sucks! "
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Reply #18 - 07/04/09  11:14pm
" Your right, it is stupid to settle. And you stating this and realizing that you deserve better makes u smart.
It's human to want to think someone has changed and to always want to see the good in people but for some its not so easy to change. And to avoid getting hurt agian I would say to move on and no second chances for cheaters!
Your stronger and better then that and deserve to be happy and not questioning whether or not you are being cheated on. :)
Good luck, wish u all the best! "
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Reply #19 - 07/05/09  12:05am
" No
May depend on the situation
But no

Mine is cheating right now with her EX
If she said she did wrong and wants back,
NO "
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Reply #20 - 07/05/09  9:20am
" CHange? People do not change that fast. My X had his chance and he blew it. I still have a hard time unerstanding how he could play with my life the way he did. He is a cheater and a liar, and he only thinks about himself. I would rather be alone for the rest of my life than be with him again. "

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