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if your X had cheated on you in your marriage and now they say they have changed, would you give them another chance?
Posted on 07/04/09, 12:07 am
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Reply #1 - 07/04/09  12:39am
" How many times/how long did it go on? Cause if its like a porn addition(sex addiction) id be wary perhaps. "
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Reply #2 - 07/04/09  12:39am
" She made me look over my shoulder for far too long. Eff that. I should be able to go to work and not worry if my wife is banging someone else.

I'm going to have to go with "no" here, my dear.

Not being judgmental (you know I love you), but you're not thinking what I think you're thinking are you? I"m just askin' "
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Reply #3 - 07/04/09  12:42am
" I don't have a real prove, he has never admited. I do think, ones affair is over and he is offering a good deal, you might consider, works to your advantage "
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Reply #4 - 07/04/09  12:43am
" I did give him a chance....I was willing to work it out and get counseling and accept the error in time and with effort...but, he really wanted the single life and he told me that he wanted to date many women. Many....and not be tied down.....I had no choice. "
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Reply #5 - 07/04/09  12:44am
" Is there any real evidence of this change? Or just his word for it? "
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Reply #6 - 07/04/09  12:46am
" *I heart DAB's anger* "
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Reply #7 - 07/04/09  12:49am
" *Hugs Z*

Sunniee, whatever it is you are thinking about.....please just think it through. You know we love you here..... "
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Reply #8 - 07/04/09  12:54am
" Don't allow loneliness to give something wrong a chance....

I don't believe that once a cheater, always a cheater....I know someone who made a mistake once and never did again for the next 30 years.....theory blown. "
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Reply #9 - 07/04/09  1:04am
" I just think what if? and it drives me insane....just lonely i guess....I really dont think I could do it and it would probably just be for sex anyway......i just want the thoughts out of my head....

GET THEM OUT!!!!!

I am so much better without him.....I am just trying to settle....stupid stupid stupid...... "
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Reply #10 - 07/04/09  1:16am
" ((((sunnieee))))

You're not stupid. You're just human. Don't apologize for being human.

I miss my Ex tremendously. Then, I recall the bullshit that goes along with that. Sigh.......not interested.

((((sunnieeee)))) "

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