Breakups & Divorce Support Group

yes lots and no it's not just you but I am sure you feel like. You are not alone. I just kept going and going. Figured I can accept it or fight it and I thought I had fought enough in my marriage it was time for a change. Good luck and soon the sighs will be replaces with smiles... B~

There are a TON of sighing and deep breaths....I thought it was just me. So hard to breathe sometimes :(

itsa, i cant wait 4 my sigh to become loud laughs.... and im learning to accept and to grown by looking withnME & God..... just didnt think i find myself in this SIGH circle..... Luv ur so very right it feels like someone gave u a big blow in the middle of ur stomach and ur just trying to breath and stand straight....... BUT THIS TO SHALL PASS!!!

I remember when there were many sighs and deep breathes from me. There was one day where I finally noticed it because a 16 year old daughter of a friend of mine said something. My ex and I hung out with these friends quite often since our move to the East. I told her I hadn't even noticed, and she said, she had noticed me doing that for several days since my ex left. I was kind of shocked she, at 16 even paid attention to what I was going through let alone what I was feeling. I told her, yeh, I don't know why i do that. She then said, "its your body cleansing your soul."

and it was....

God, I will second that SIGH with an UGH! I remember a lot of ughs! at the beginning too...

Your Siiiiiigh will, eventually, turn into a siiiigh of relief. Hang in there!

Sighs, tears, and "what ifs".

I think the what if is the toughest. What if I had done A or B, what if we tried this, what if I didn't do that. All those unanswerable questions.

Chi, that is awsome... i feel a cleanse as well