Breakups & Divorce Support Group

I know that feeling! Ur right it sucks big time! But don't let her play games with you or she will hurt u again and again. Try to breathe deeply and drink some WATER then breathe in and out again. The beginning is the hardest thing to go through, especially when we are the ones being left, but don't let it affect your self-esteem....it rarely ever has to do with us, but instead their issues! ((hugs)) hang in there!

oh my gosh... you don't deserve that. big hugs and support to you tonight. that is MESSED UP.

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reach out to friends for support. i woud highly encourage talking to a therapist to start to sort this out in your mind. you shouldn't go through this alone.

Sorry you are going through this. It sucks...

If you will consider any advice, stop offering yourself to her. She will feel crowded and you will feel pathetic. She already knows what you want. Give her time to figure out what she wants.

And quit blaming yourself. She will give you 10,000 reasons, 9,999 of which are blaming you for her decision. Don't let her take you there. It is her responsibility,

In the meantime, don't think you know her. At the height of emotions, she will behave erratically and unpredictably. The pendulum swings a long way in milliseconds. Try not to judge her at her worst.

Good luck and post often.

I agree with Jennyme
you need support right now
from people who know and care about you
and therapy will help you ease some of the overwhelming feelings

wow
that sounds maddening

((((((hugs))))))