Breakups & Divorce Support Group

3 weeks ago my husband of 5 years and lived together for 1 told me he wanted to be done. He suggested that I go to visit my friend 12 hrs away. Little did I know that I would be moving here because of the things that followed devistated me. 3 days after I left he and another friend packed all of my belongings and put them in storage without my knowledge. I of course found out after the fact. I also found out that he was already involved with someone. I then found out that she lived down the road. Who knows how long he had been planning this but obviously for awhile. I swears he wasn't cheating on me but I am sorry if he didn't before I left he sure didn't wait long to move on. I hear this is very common with the
narssist. I was a supply and so is she and this will most likely happen to her too. This doesn't change the fact that I am hurting and grieving the loss of my husband, my home, my pets that I love and cared for. He has also made threats to me that if I say anything to anyone about anything that he will make my life a living hell. I believe him because I have seen him do this. He has threatened me that if my son didn't stop talking about him that I would pay. I believe him. I also know that he is an awful person and I do wonder what I loved about him but he has his charming quailities and I bought into them. I miss the wonderful times we spent together and that is all I can think about. I am grieving the loss of my marriage. I have chosen to live in place I am totally unfamiliar with. I have a dear friend who is willing to help me out. Emotionally and to help me get back on my feet financially. I am grateful for her and all she has done for and I probably can never repay her for all of her generousity. I know that I will heal from all of this and I will understand why it is all happening but I didn't deserve to be treated the way I was. Tossed out like trash. I have been exterminated and replaced as if I never existed. I cry all of the time. I can't eat or sleep. I am not functioning and this man has hurt my soal. I pray that I can recover someday.
Posted on 07/16/12, 11:22 pm