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We are still currently living in the same house (until July 1st) and we are still married...at least until August. I found out that he was sexting an old friend and he sent her pictures of his...#$%. Our divorce is amicable and we get along for the sake of our kids, but it makes me uncomfortable to know that he is doing that while we are still technically married/living together. Does this mean he really does not have any respect for me and never did since he cheated on me the first time 1 year ago? I know I probably shouldn't care but I can't help but be hurt about it!
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U r going to care because u still love him.... my advice is that as long as it doesn't effect the kids and they don't know what is going on just let it go... he doesn't deserve u and you and your kids deserve better from a man and a father,,,, get out and move on.... I wish the best to you and your children, I would also advice that if u can get out sooner do it cause it isn't only causing u pain but also your kids.
The best of luck and god bless!!!!
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I have always thought there is something mentally wrong with a man that puts his "unit" out on the internet. If you two were in limbo as far as whether or not you were going to breakup, you might have a reason to be mad. In your situation, his actions are just pathetic.
Sorry you're dealing with this, but it should be over soon.
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I would chalk it up to one more thing added to
the "thankful I'm leaving this marriage" list.
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this is the kind of stuff that happens when a couple stays in the house after it is over. just try to be away from home a lot.
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I would take solace in knowing that she probably laughed when she received the pic and possibly forwarded it to other people... I don't know any female that gets turned on by those pics, they usually respond to the guy like he's so impressive but make fun of him to everyone else. Sad move on his part.
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You're just jealous he didn't send it to you.
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It sounds like he is intentionally trying to hurt you or at least enjoys the attention of your anger. Try laughing (inside at least) at his behavior instead.
As far as his affairs go, it would be a mistake to think it has anything to do with you. He cheated plain and simple. He may want to blame you, but it wasn't your decision. It was his. That said, I'm sorry you guys couldn't work it out. Even if the past 8 of 18 years were rough, many marriages recovery from an affair to be stronger. It's too bad that wasn't possible for the two of you.
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I will second Joyride's commet....
Been there, done that...it sucks.
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many acts that people do to each other are disrespectful. But unfortunately, there are people that just don't care; or maybe they do after they get caught and look silly.
But yeh, I would have to say while it hurts, you should be glad he is almost gone.
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Another idiot that thinks his junk is so great he needs to send it to some "lucky" woman. What an idiot. Lolol. I'm sorry he fathered your children and you have to put up with him
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U r going to care because u still love him.... my advice is that as long as it doesn't effect the kids and they don't know what is going on just let it go... he doesn't deserve u and you and your kids deserve better from a man and a father,,,, get out and move on.... I wish the best to you and your children, I would also advice that if u can get out sooner do it cause it isn't only causing u pain but also your kids.


