Breakups & Divorce Support Group

If I may opine based upon the details you shared, I believe he came down with a sudden case of 'the wandering eye." In other words, I believe he set his site on another. I also believe that may well be the reason he gets edgy when you try/tried to dig deeper into the reason for the surprise -- and very cowardly, by the way -- break up. (I don't think he wants to own the real cause of his lack of commitment.)

He's right about two things, and two things only: you didn't do anything wrong and there's nothing you could/can do to fix it. And don't buy into that malarky about his not being happy being your boyfriend; he wouldn't have stayed two years if he wasn't! His comment is nothing more than a lame attempt to make an excuse for his poor behavior, while subtly suggesting you should share some responsibility for his choice to exit. But don't buy into it, please!

You say you don't know how he feels, but in fact, you do. He told you. I've learned a very important lesson on this site from women of experience, and it's this: NO CONTACT! Hold onto your dignity and walk away, sweetie. I think he's provided more than reason enough to do so. (You're SO much better than him!)

Boys are so stupid.
My opinion, it doesnt matter how he feels because he made it clear he wants it to be over. And GOOD RIDDANCE! It doesnt feel like it now, but you are WAY better off without him. After two years and all you get is a text!? OH HELL NO. Unleash your inner black woman and move on sissta! I'm in a similar situation, I totally know how you feel.
But you're going to meet someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve. You need to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince :) so keep looking! Stray strong girlfriendddd

Let him go. You are young and this will not be the first boyfriend you have. I know it hurts, but you can't force someone to love you. He is immature and has likely set his eye for someone else, which is typical for teen boys.

Go no contact, get with your girlfriends and move on and live life.

Sending hugs!

i have a few questions for you first of all.. how do you rate your 2 years of relationship.. did you start it.. or was it him.. was it everything mutual or was more giving or taking from either of you.. that would explain a lot ..