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Not sure what DumbDumb Meant...
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Long story short.... I am going through a divorce that I filed for in December 2011. DumbDumb and I have 2 boys ages 5 and 1. DumbDumb was absent ALL of their lives while living in the same home...he chose porn, alcohol, verbal abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, and the company of other women more appealing than his family.

Okay...so today, he wanted to pick the boys up at 4 pm. I sent him and email letting him know that we would not be back home until 4:30-4:45. He responded with: "I'm sorry you are still hurting".

Hurting about what? What the heck does he think I am hurting about? My getting home at the above time is called life (i.e. errands, etc.).

Anyone else have a clue into what DumbDumb was talking about? Or is it me clearly not getting it?
Posted on 06/15/12, 06:07 pm
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Reply #1 - 06/15/12  6:56pm
" He's fishing. Don't bite. "
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Reply #2 - 06/15/12  7:10pm
" Just tell him "and I'm sorry you're still delusional" "
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Reply #3 - 06/15/12  7:13pm
" Oh no... delusional just starts more pressure...

I'd say... oh so sorry I'm late... I ran into (insert random name of opposite sex here), an old friend from school and I lost track of time!

And watch him squirm, lol. "
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Reply #4 - 06/15/12  7:19pm
" I was kidding.

Actually if I wasn't hurting, I'd just say "what are you talking about, I'm not hurting at all"

Maybe your kids gave him the impression you were? "
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Reply #5 - 06/15/12  7:21pm
" lmao it's so funny you call him that, lol he is probably trying to get into your head to see where your at. If you don't want anything to do with him ignore him. Like reply 1 said he's fishing. "
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Reply #6 - 06/15/12  8:35pm
" Yeah, I think he's fishing as well. I did reply.... and I said "Hurting? Hurting from what?....I am not in pain."

I haven't checked to see if he responded but....he's an idiot who has been misdiagnosed mentally. 2 professionals have told me that he has Borderline Personality Disorder....

I wish him well, and I truly hope he gets help so that he can be a better father to our son's. "
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Reply #7 - 06/15/12  8:41pm
" Sounds like he is just solidifying his named as DumbDumb "
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Reply #8 - 06/15/12  8:56pm
" good one chitown bear, i second that. "
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Reply #9 - 06/15/12  9:07pm
" LOL...... I think so too! "
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Reply #10 - 06/15/12  9:17pm
" Ignore and let go. He doesn't know what he is talking about. "
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