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Miss Tarot is back for her Spring visit
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It seems like she comes around every Spring,
I don't know how long she'll be sticking around,
so I ask:

"how do I best deal with the anxiety of the coming few months in particular, and the coming year in general, given all the changes I have so little control over?"


Your upcoming changes are throwing you into a bit of internal upheaval, especially since you know you'll be evaluated anew, and competing with others for security. It'll be too easy to feel anxiety and stress over it all. Maybe even frustration that you can't control the situation the way you'd really like to. Your creative sparks may be burning low while your way through thorny obstacles

but get this, take the path of least resistance this one time, don't be so hard on yourself.

Besdies your work experience and your reputation, you know, dry spells dont last, and you know you're going to emerge from this difficulty with renewed energy and creativity.

"A change is as good as a holiday."

Let your friends support you, and move forward deliberately and with confidence.



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anyone else?
Posted on 04/27/12, 05:44 pm
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Reply #21 - 04/27/12  7:56pm
" Ugh. Low stress levels are not in my future... I recently didn't get a new job because of a f*cked up application system (loooooooooooong story) and now it looks like my contract work might be in jeopardy thanks to the council not funding new projects.

Cooperation might have to be it...

Thanks Miss Tarot! "
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Reply #22 - 04/27/12  9:24pm
" Can I join in? What will my future be like with this farm. "
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Reply #23 - 04/27/12  9:38pm
" can you read a card for me? "
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Reply #24 - 04/27/12  10:19pm
" trisha
dahlink

prudent (ˈpruːd ə nt)
— adj
1. discreet or cautious in managing one's activities; circumspect
2. practical and careful in providing for the future
3. exercising good judgment or common sense
far-sighted
acting with foresight

carefully attending to the farm is just as important as letting go of the results, right?
you have this careful balance between appreciating and cultivating what is already there, and protecting new growth and new life with a light hand that allows it to have its own experience

that can apply to many facets of life, not only your farm ;)

everything worthy of careful tending is worthy of your appreciation of its beauty too

your careful and proper tending to the possibilities on the farm, will produce really fabulous results

your prudence and permission (care and a light hand) will not stifle, or allow things to stray

whatever "fruit" you produce will feed more than just you
in fact some of "the others" will be inspired by you to create their own beauty by using prudence and permission too

stay with the farm Trisha
the beauty still requires your assistance to grow
there will be plenty of time to play when the process is finished

(wow, thats nice) "
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Reply #25 - 04/27/12  10:48pm
" Rman, good to see you again.

Life is in a constant state of flux. The secret to thriving in it is to be mobile and adaptive to change. In order to evolve, you have to keep your eye level just above the mayhem. Change can't be stopped, at best it can be directed, but you have to actively participate in it.

This is the time you are becoming more solid, more aware, and more present in the moment. Dont cling too tightly to the past, or even what you think this life should be.

Change can be overwhelming, but take hold of the small changes you notice, and that you do like. Stay grounded. Pay attention to the direction you are going. The universe has opened a door of possibilities to you. Don't be afraid to evolve to the next level. "
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Reply #26 - 04/27/12  11:14pm
" Wow that is nice. Thank you. I do have to sell this farm but I will start over. I'm still looking for a way to keep the farm. "
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Reply #27 - 04/27/12  11:44pm
" Could you read a card for me, please? Have so many questions, I'll just take what I get! :) "
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Reply #28 - 04/28/12  9:51am
" cwalla,

joy, sadness, fear, anger, love, guilt, and compassion are the colours we paint our emotional life with

the theme for right now is to make sure you're grounded so that all these emotions can flow through and around you without leaving you feeling off kilter

these are good emotions, they're nutrient-rich, full of truth as long as you arent attached to any of them

you be solid, while they are fluid, flowing in and flowing out again, none of them are permanent

inside, be aware you are already wise, and compassionate to those who may be feeling turbulent
be centred and you will be able to explore every emotion for its truth

be a good lsitener to your friends and loved ones
listen to everything with an open heart
even your own emotions
and if others cant hear you or dont want to during your emotional times
know that inside of you a calm wise beautiful evolution is taking place "
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Reply #29 - 04/28/12  10:45am
" MIss Tarot,
Can you give me a one year outlook?\ "
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Reply #30 - 04/28/12  11:48am
" Pls tell me what is the future of my health and relationship? Thanks. "

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