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I met this guy about 10 days ago and it was a whirlwind on how he talked to me and the romance that he gave to me. Telling me he loved me just after 2 dates, promising the world, wanting me to be with him forever. Now things have changed, he hasnt talked much about the lovey dovey stuff and if I say anything about missing him or anything he just says "yeah I know" instead of saying "i miss you too." He really had me going with everything he was saying. Talking about getting a bigger house when we decide to move together. I don't know what to do. I need some advice. Should I just quit talking to him? I've already asked him if there was something wrong and he got snippy. Please let me know what to do!!!
Posted on 11/07/09, 07:11 pm |
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Maybe you need to figure out why YOU were willing to talk about moving in, love, ect. after 10 days, and why you thought it was a good thing he was. This isn't the first time you've jumped this fast either, is it? 
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He sure sounds like he was trying to get you in the sack, and when he couldn't, he lost interest. He doesn't deserve you.
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I fell for that kind of man once, but we moved together and got a kid. Suddenly he changed his mind and left us. He has hardly any contact with his son today.
Believe that you are worth much more than some romantic hours. Often we think things are great, just to get away from something else. But the one that's paying the prize is you! Take care!
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Ditto to what everyone is saying...
The thing we forget in times like this, is.. what are the REAL signals this person is sending out 'right now'? He's pushing you away...and that's the signal. Period. Remove his number from your cell. Never talk to him again. Get down on your knees and thank the Gods that this was the outcome. You found yourself a really, confused, immature rotten apple and it's time to throw him back to the birds. Whew! Lucky you!
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I am with Redfish. You have only known each other a very, very short time and already you are planning a life together. This is not a healthy adult relationship. I also agree with Redfish with the red flags about abusive relationships. Often them move too fast and before you know it you are stuck in something that you can't get out of.
End it with him. If he truly cares for you he will try to get you back. If he does do it right this time. Do not feed into promises of forever so soon. If he doesn't fight for you than you know he isn't worth it and move on.
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Hello, don't you think the early days are meant to be filled with a sense of your inner strenght and that the person gets the whole beautiful you - should you really be fretting about what's going on with him?
If he's making you feel insecure, it will probably continue - it's not nice to connect with someone and then for them to make you feel confused so soon. Maybe pull away, break the spell. Focus on the marvellous things about yourself that someone else will "get" without you feeling a bit odd about this sudden development and that you somehow have have to fix it. You're wise to see the red flags - you're a strong person.
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