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Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...

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My husband surprised me last week by informing me that he isn't happy and he does not know if he wants to be with me. He said he isn't happy with his job, the house, his friend, and me. He informed me that he has been living his life to make me happy but he isn't happy. I take care of all the household chores, make sure I rub his feet every night because he loves it, and we almost never fight. This came out of nowhere for me. Now he sleeps on the couch while I miss him like crazy down the hall. He informed me that he loves me but he needs to find happiness. He needs time to figure all of this out. I am lost and heart broken. I love the man like crazy and was shocked when I heard this. Should I stay or should I go?
Posted on 11/06/09, 05:11 pm
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Reply #11 - 11/08/09  11:50am
" There is a chance he has already been seeking outside your marriage.

You need to put your foot down and insist on counseling. Don't let this drag out, because if is seeing someone he has no motivation to change.

Sorry for the hurt. "

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