What is Breakups Divorce
Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...
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letting go? why do you feel like you cant?
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is the cup full or empty? They say when you are asked a question like this, your answer bases how you see life but i see the cup as half empty but yet im positive. i feel alone as if noone is truely there for me, but yet i kno i am alive becuz i can still feel some sort of pain/discomfort. just like the saying goes if you love something let it go right?, so why is it so hard to just accept it, dont get me wrong i am letting things go, its the only thing i can do, but why do i feel the urge to fight bak and try n win her over?, i know if i do my answer clearly, but i just want to keep trying, but my will/pride wont let me anymore. it hurts because i never thought i could reach this kind of feeling atleast not twice. one time shame on you two times shame on me. =/ why cant i be strong enough to endure this without the pain holding me back from my daily life, well more like my daily choices..
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possibly because you feel alone, she was the one who provided you with the only feelings and love you have known for some time and maybe, you will never find it again?
one thing to make no mistake about is that you will find that feeling again for some one. If you felt it not once, but twice for someone, then you know you can feel it again. You are young and just learning what life is really about in general and in relationships. Lessons are for learning so as we grow, we grow with enough experience, strength and love for ourselves inside, that we attract the like and the lessons we have learned, have taken us to where we are really meant to be. Stay strong and know yourself, you are going to get through this and be ok. That you will find what you are looking for, as soon as you find yourself. best wishes 
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Do I understand what you are saying, divorce or let go by someone you love sucks.
I love him and I thought everything was okay, when all of the sudden BAM he then says Im leaving. What the heck ?!?!?!?!?where did that come from?!?!?!?!?!? He is not the same person I fell in love with, this man is mean and machine like, ( no feelings ) The good thing is that no one dies from love.
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i agree, noone dies, but i believe people need their space. some people change for the better some for the worst, but over all we can always change. now they question is why did she change this way?, She isnt who i fell inlove with anymore, but those feelings barely remain, i can never rid myself of them completly but i accept the fact, she isnt the same and will not change unless she wants to. now all i have to do is keep my head up and do things for the better.
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this feels exactly like me.always wanting to fight for somnething that you know that you will never have. i tried to win somebody over and over but everytimre i try i get hurt even more. to save yourself from that pain and humiliation i will advise you not to even try to fight for her
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