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I found out my boyfriend cheated on me the first 4-6 months of our relationship over the computer, flirting with other girls and even goign as far as having "cyber sex." with a girl.
And he manipulated me to do sexual things with him even when he knew I wa against it or didn't want to. We've been together over a year. Even before I found out he changed his way. He says he's sorry. He even cries at times. He even dropped all of his friends and deleted his myspace account. He's told me he he's so sorry he wants to die when I ask him what he's thinking. I thin he genuinley is very sorry. I asked him if we could start over. As if we were just starting to date again. I told him that I need time to get back the trust I had in him, and to do anything sexual. He said it was fine and he'd do it. But I'm afraid he might cheat again. Because we were not yet having sex when the cheating happened and I don't want him to do the same thing. (though he promised he wouldn't, he's broken that promise before) Posted on 11/03/09, 10:11 pm |
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He manipulated you to do sexual things?
Drop his ass like a bad habit. 
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Can you get the trust back? really?
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This is a very emotionally manipulative relationship. I doubt his crying is real, but only a way to emotionally get you to do what he wants. Be very careful. My opinion is to get away from him and meet someone healthy.
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some people say that people cant change, but he may be actually trying, and changed, but if he is its up to u to be strong with him, so he can learn that the same mistakes will not be tolerated, but before you do any of this you should as yourself is it really worth it?
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My advice is to read Reply #3 very carefully. Because I think Redphish nailed it.
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What Soon said.
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I was in your very shoes, my ex PAID for cyber/webcam/phone sex. Every time I found out he would cry, beg, and make promises of changing. I took him back over and over again for 5 years. Trust me sweetie, more than likely he will do those things again, but in the end the decision is yours. You do not want to end up like me, because today I am an emotional wreck, because people like that can hurt YOUR self esteem. Think about it, and take care
Hugs!
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Good advice. Dump him. You should never do anything sexual that you're not comfortable with and if he truly loved you, he wouldn't ask you to.
I see lots of red flags here. Let him go.
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Abusive and manipulative people abound. Move on to someone who will treat you well and someone you can trust.
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Dump this guy...hes a dipshit. Find someone that wont...He manipulated you to do sexual things...thats just wrong.
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