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Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse. The main causes of divorce in 2004, according to a recent study, were extra-marita...
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ok , im divorced at 25 with a kid of 4 years , , typically got married young through pure imaturity , realized i was with someone that i shudnt of been with, disturbed in everyway , anyway when i left i didnt leave myself time for anything to heal ,to digest it even , i jumped into another relationship , a year later im still in it , but its only now im starting to come to realize the mistake , im so easily taken advantage of due to the want to be ina secure trusting relationship , now im with someone that hasnt treated me the best but im only strarting to see it now as ive had time to grow mentally , im wonderin so much over the past 2 months .
is it my fault hes not respectin me by not demanding it ? is it to late to salvage anything because ive been a doormat for so long? and how the f**K do figure out what to do next ? ? Posted on 11/01/09, 10:11 am |
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Welcome to DS. I'm sorry for your pain. We know that drill all too well and it is so sad to see someone going through this hurt. Here are the links that a fellow DS member, PGamble, put together. We all care. It's time roll up your sleeves and start taking those necessary steps before we MARCH MARCH MARCH. Do your part and we will walk beside you and you should seek counseling in addition to your daily strength. Godspeed.
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well, i can identify with where you're at. i think you need to build up your self-esteem for sure. if you believe your own worth, than you will expect it of others, and they will in turn know and treat you with the respect. it's not easy, especially if you have been in a relationship for sometime, where someone treats you badly. You start to believe it.
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I wrote this today in a semi private place:
"I've been in a 'relationship' for a couple of months now. I walked away from it on Friday. Had to as it did not meet my expectations. No superficial ones but the ones that could be harmful to my psyche. I'm sad but not damaged." All I can tell you is that if you are not priority, if you are not treated with dignity and respect WITHOUT having to 'demand' it, you must make the right decision even though it hurts. Also, the main board is a better place for you to post. More traffic and more wisdom shared there.
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thnx ladies , i think ur right i shouldnt have to demand it , i am so hurt by all the things that have been done to me and angry that i took it and eccepted that thats all i was worth , especially as ive a daughter who shud have a good role model ,
im a complete expert at hiding my feelings and pottering along like nothings happened, im not sure what to say to him now but i now think its time to face things, break up with him , and concentrate on my daughter and myself
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