Breakups & Divorce Support Group

But with whom do men cheat . . . women like my ex. Personally, I think if a woman wants to cheat, she can do it far easier than a man. And I don't think there is much gender difference in the amount of cheating going on, but I could be wrong.

Cantforgivehimyet??
When are you going to let go of this pain and start seeing your self worth? Being happy in your life? Seek Gods true plan for your life with someone that will truelly love you for whom you are?
When will you take the time to grow from these mistakes that have been made and see a sunnier day ahead?
It has been months now that I have seen your posts of still have not forgiven him yet? In the blink of an eye years will have passed and you will have grown into bitternes and have made the worst decision of your life..Not living it to its greatest potential..Don't be like my hubbys X, whom after six years has not moved on with her life and all that remains is the bitterness and ugliness that has taken over her soul and she has not gained anything even when it was her at fault just as well that the relationship ended..People sometimes cheat because it is over before that stage of cheating has ever even came to place..Others do it for the heck of it..Either way you have to learn from it and go on living!
Live, laugh and love again..these are my wishes for you so that you will be fulfilled in this life...But it has beeen months now and its time to start seeing the sunshine, get some therapy or just throw the crap over your shoulders..Gather your strength and move on..NO More...Do not let this man take up anymore of your self worth it is just not worth it especially when its over..
You cant recieve gods true blessing for your life until you have moved on..
I used to think I was sooo in love with this man about 22 yrs ago..I thought he was my soulmate..We were engaged , he went home for about 2 weeks and told me his hs sweetheart had seduced him and she gave him a bj..Well I had just found out I was pregnant, but had not told him yet..I let him tell me his story first..I broke up with him even though he pleaded and begged he was sorry, cought up in the moment etc..We both went our seperate ways..I had the baby didn't ask him for a dime of CS.. He got married to her, he cheated on her as well and told me he had thought of me often..He suddenly wanted to pay me CS so he didn't have to pay his X wife alimony..My son met him and we have kind of kept in touch over the years..My son thinks he is a peice of work eve though he is a cop..He got remarried and has yet to be faithful to his new wife again..I got remarried and wouldn't neither one of us dare to even think of cheating on one another...
The moral of the story is people do things all the time, people need to watch others before they quickly jump into a relationship..They need to wait on God to put the one he has made for you into your life or it will not be right..I know my hubby is right for me because we have a picture of us together at 8 yrs old we didn't even know each other..Our fathers fought in the same war together..God put us together..we both just wasted our time and bodies on someone that didn't respect us and truelly love us for whom we are.. Yes my hubby cheated on his X wife once when he was telling her he was walking out..only to find out all along she had cheated long before he had..Even does not want to ace the fact his son is not even his, but they will live the lie, and we will love the boy even though he is not his...But she has to live with it...When you are all alone with no teeth and sittin in your rocker with no one to put your blanky over you.. I hope you will have no regrets that you still cant forgive him yet??
So it is your choice..Open your eyes and see that this person was just not meant to be..Live and learn and love what you have shared with him and move on...You are sooo much worth it..

Love Kim Cattrall....very wise lol