What is Bisexuality
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender ...
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Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender ...

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How do I know if I'm bi?
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I don't know if I'm bi. I think I might be. I was raised in a household where bi's/gays/lebs are hated. Lots of my friends aren't straight.
I've never dated a girl, but there was one I kind of wanted to. But I've kissed girls and I was neutral on it. But I like looking at girls, and I think I could be interested in trying out a non sexual girl on girl relationship. But I want to (someday after marraige) have sex with a man, marry that man, and raise kids.) I'm afraid of more family rejection... Any adivce on being 100% sure? Posted on 11/05/09, 11:11 pm |
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I forgot to mention there's too girls I had a crush on...
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If you wouldn't be interested in having a sexual relationship with a girl, then chances are you aren't bisexual. It's normal to notice beautiful people, and hey, girls are especially pretty. :) You can still be straight if you think so.
However, in my case I thought I was feeling the same way about girls. Yeah, they're pretty, but no, I would never become seriously involved with one or anything. But then I realized I was only trying to rationalize my attraction for girls, and once I let go of the idea of what's "normal" I found out that my interest in them was much more than just some aesthetic thing. You said you want to marry a man someday. If there's no way that could change to you wanting to marry a woman instead, then maybe you're just curious.
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That makes sense... But...
I guess it's not because it's not "normal" i wouldnt be with a girl. I wouldnt mind kissing... It's jsut... I dont like msaturbaitng and touching another girl would be the same. And, I can't make a baby with a women. Plus... girls never notice mme. They arouse me, but they never hit on me like guys do.
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Labels suck anyways....just be who you are and do what you wanna do.
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Thanks to both of you for answering.
I'm afraid of... being wrong I guess? I don't want to tell people I'm something I end up not being, but I don't want to be something and not tell my family. I guess I'll wait to see what happens.
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I felt the same way. Before I was absolutely sure of what I was, I just told people I was "open." That's what worked for me.
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there is no need to tell your family unless you're 100%
because you might change your mind later... and that would be a very awkward conversation. just go with the flow until you are sure :) also i agree with kokahum
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It's normal to feel like that. I've been (and maybe still) going through the phase where i feel attracted to girls, i enjoy reading girlxgirl and sometimes wonder what it'd be like to be with a girl. But i still feel attracted to guys, i haven't spoken to my family as i wasn't that worried about it.
One of my best friends is bi, i once talked to her about it wondering if i could be it, she told me that she feels she's bi because she enjoys not only doing sexual things to guys but to girls aswell and although i feel attracted to girls, i wouldn't say i'd do sexual things to them. If you feel like you could do sexual things with girls, then that could possible be a sign?
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Personally, I've only told a few of a my friends that I'm bisexual as orientation doesn't usually come up with most people I know. And, as my family is non-supportive, I haven't told it either. Just remember that there's no rush, no need to panic, no need to label yourself. Remember, sexuality is only one small facet of who we are; being bisexual does not necessarily have to be a means to self-identity. My suggestion is to do some soul searching. When you're comfortable telling others about your sexuality (or questioning of it), do so. But, I would let too many others know you're bisexual, especially as you're not quite sure if you are.
And, again, as previously stated, don't worry too much about labels. There's so much more in life to worry about!
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*would not tell too many people
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