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Would you fullfill anything your mate wants?
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Would you do anything to fullfill your wife/husband/mates sexual desires or fantasies? Would you have a threesome with either sex, or allow your wife/husband/mate to have time alone with another man/woman, watch or be watched if it was something that your wife/husband/mate had strong desires for it? Just looking for honest thoughts or opinions!
Posted on 10/28/09, 08:10 am
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Reply #1 - 10/28/09  10:42am
" Heck no!
LoL..we're both too jeajlous of people (in that sense) to do something like that. Plus, it's not either one of our fantasies. BUT, my husband has said I can have a sexual encounter with a woman...alone. No threesomes. "
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Reply #2 - 10/28/09  2:29pm
" My thought is that I'd want to know what my spouse's fantasy was before agreeing to it, but I also think saying "yes" would potentially have a selfish element to it. That is, if I agreed to something my spouse wanted I'd feel like it would open a window for me to suggest a fantasy of my own in return. "
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Reply #3 - 10/28/09  5:40pm
" I was just curious as to how others feel about this, I know that I would willing to make all my gf's fantasies come true as long as it was something we did as a cpl and she didnt go behind my back and lie to me and cheat on me. "
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Reply #4 - 10/29/09  2:29pm
" Well,. that's an interesting subject. There are really 2 factors here: First, doing things outside your comfort zone, then, jealousy.
Here's my situation:
My GF is talking about exploring w/ another girl for the first time, which she wants to do alone. I don't have a prob with this, I'm not afraid she'll fall for someone else & first time jitters, well, I understand why she'd want to do it alone.
However, she's given me permission to play with another guy, alone, but I want her there.
The next question for me, really, is would I do things out of my comfort zonev like, for me, being tied up, or something else she wanted & I didn't. Well, as long as I could feel personally safe & it didn't involve things that discust me like poo or blood, sure, I'd give it a shot, but if I didn't enjoy it, it would go on the "birthdays only" list. "
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Reply #5 - 10/30/09  11:04am
" If I love them....I will give them the world. "
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Reply #6 - 11/02/09  10:18am
" I used to be that way - but anymore, I just don't want to have a mate in the first place. So the idea of doing anything someone wants just to please them doesn't work for me. "
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Reply #7 - 11/02/09  1:18pm
" Thinking more about this I started realizing how it's like playing "truth or dare". There were times when, playing this game, I'd come up with either a "truth" question or a dare that I was afraid to use. For one thing I was afraid I'd ruin the game with something that went over the line, but another thing I kept in mind was worrying about what somebody might ask me or dare me to do. "

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