What is Bisexuality
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender ...
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I have been wondering to ask this question...Am I bi? For the longest time of my life most of my sexual encounters have been with women. However in recent times since I discovered that I like men, I have mostly have sex with men even though the feelings for women are still there. I would not necessarily look for women for sex now that I am single having been in on and off relationship with men.
I know and I have had sex with women when the occasion arises but I have mostly had sex with men and when I am in the mood I tend to look for men for sex rather than women. Women (not meaning to be disrepectful) are always a last resort if I can't find a man I am sexually attracted to. This gets me confused most times. Does that make me a bi or what?. Dunno... I was married for 13 years and has 4 kids from that marriage. I enjoyed sex with her the whole time and only look to men when she refuses me sex.:-( Posted on 10/25/09, 10:10 pm |
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well its really up to you to know if your bi sexual. This is why I know I am bi sexual... maybe from my experiance you can sort out your own???
I am a 35 year old woman. WHen I was in the 4th grade I had my first sexual experiances with other femals (3 different girls actually) shortly there after I had experiances with boys. As I got older I leaned towward men but always secretly harored my desire for women. I think if I had a man in front of me and a woman in front of me both for pure sex no emotions attached I would be drawn to the female. On the other hand I could never fully give up sex with men. There are just certain things men do better then women and vice versa.... When I add in emotional levels... I have no true preferance who I spend my time with. I just want them to be the right person. Men provide a certain type of relationship that women dont. Same is true for women. Sometimes I find I miss not having both types of relationships but dont want to cheat on my husband. When I devorsed my x husband I swore I would be with a women for the rest of my exsistance.... but then along came my husband and stole my heart. For me its about the person and sexuality doesnt matter. But when I fantasie about sex its nearly always about anoughter woman So I would look at why you like men. What do you like about them is it purely sexual is it the enotional link thats there? Do you enjoy sex with women at all ( Like I said I perfer women over men yet its been years since I have had that oppertunity)could you completely give up one sex mate for good??? even in dry spells? Are there aspects about female relationships you do like??? I htink if you evaluate your emotions around either sex you will find the answer you are looking for 
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