Bisexuality Support Group

Well , you know I am gay too. and the only advice i can give you hun is . If you feel more stronger over one sex then the other than ? then if you do then go with the one sex you feel more stronger towards . thats what i have done and it is working great .

hey, I am kind of in the same place. I think I may be leaning more to one side, but what I wonder is if all same sex attraction has to end in being gay/ > I probably wont stop being attracted to the opposite gender, and still think I'll end up with a girl
these are the wonders of bisexuality! gooood luck!

Is it all about the body though? What about the person's mind? Does it matter what gender they are if you love them? Since I met my husband, its not like I don't still get turned-on by women, but I don't have any interest in straying outside the marriage--he is satisfying to me because of the person he is and the fact that we are uber-compatible. But if his mind/soul/whatever was somehow in a woman's body I would feel just as strongly. I guess what I'm asking is, is this really about the person's gender? Or just that you haven't quite found the right one yet?
Hang in there!

I try stay away from labels, and not in the same boat either but I understand the attraction, I use to work with this girl, I will call her "K"... Anyways I was attacted to K from the start, but hey I am married so no issue.. But K, she so beautiful and very itelligent, she turn me on to the thought of women and plus she a lesbien. Thought of her is excited but truth be known I don't know if I was single what would happen.. That the sucky thing about marriage a lot of time you get stuck in, what could of been. I still see K around a lot and extermly fasnatied with her, but me being married I will never pursue it. Wow I got off topic sorry, I think you give women another chance see how it makes you feel.

It might very well be that you are not attracted to him physically (whether it's due to his gender or other factors) and this is affecting your desire to have sex with him. BEEN THERE DONE THAT.

I fluctuated for years not knowing if I was bi or gay. I finally realized that I am definitely bisexual. Are you attracted to other men besides your bf? If so then you're most likely not a lesbian.

I know that Humunculus means when she says, "Is it all about the body though? What about the person's mind? Does it matter what gender they are if you love them?". But I think sexual preference is just that. A sexual preference.

Personally, I've discovered that, although I am physically attracted to both men and women, I am only happy in a male-female relationship. I mean, I can love anyone, but I've only been able to fall in love with men. I am married now & have been with my husband for 4 years, but I do still think and dream about women. he knows this and understands.

It's a hard thing to know. Myself, I'm bisexual and there are some periods in my life where I only want to actually date women. Sometimes I'm open to both. I'm always labeled as bisexual but it sometimes I'm more attracted to one than the other, depending.

And the lack of sex drive could come from a lot of things. It happens to all of us.

Sexuality is not black and white, and sometimes it changes. Just go with your gut feeling.

I'm also much picker with women. Don't know why.

I love men....and I love women. End of story.

You can be bi with a strong preferance.

all my bi friends told me that its easy for them to be somewhat attracted to a guy but their really picky when it comes to girls so on that part your not alone. but dont worry bout the label just be with who you want period.