What is Bisexuality
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender ...
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I'm 16 and I am soooo confused. It seems that I'm more attracted to people based on personality rather than looks...or gender. Which is probably why I keep wanting to be involved with my friends that are girls. I actually have been involved with two of my best girl friends and..it was awesome. But ever since then i've been trying to run from the fact that i liked it alot. I'm currently dating a guy who confessed to me that he is bisexual and with him being confused about his feelings and me being confused about my feelings its making everything more confusing!. I like guys on a more...sexual level but I like girls on all the other levels(does that make sense?) Even though i am currently in a relationship with a guy i feel myself being pulled towards one of my best friends..and jealous over the fact that she likes a guy. I'm not sure I'm just constantly confused these days. I dont even know what I'm asking advice on, just on helping me sort and figure some things out? Sorry for the long story
Posted on 10/25/09, 10:10 pm |
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well, i basically thought i was straight my whole life until some interesting things happened and i started kissing girls. i had a near-sex experience once, and that was when i knew FOR SURE that i was bi. i still like guys though, however i always go for the girly ones... anyway, you're probably bisexual if you can see yourself being together with a girl or guy both emotionally and physically. try to picture it in your head. it may help you figure things out. 
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Sexuality isn't black and white. You could be bi, or not. Even if you are bi, there are some periods where you may not be as attracted to the same sex. I know how you feel, because I'm still attracted sexually to guys, sometimes, but prefer to have relationships with women. For me personally, a way for me to get both is dating masculine women with strong personalities. But it's totally normal to feel confused because it's a fuzzy subject. There are no rules, just your feelings. It's normal to feel jealous. If you are happy in your relationship, good. If you have doubts, think them through. And it's normal, I'd think especially for bisexuals, to be attracted by things other than gender. I like strong personalities, male or female. Let me know if you want to talk!
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you pretty much summed up how feel about relationships. I like the person and could care less about the gender really. I happen to fall in love with my husband but really miss the relationship part of being with women. ANd I think sexualy I am actually more attracted to women then men. BUt I dont think I could ever give up being in relationships completely with men either. Im still trying to find the right balance in life. Being married I am monogomous so I have put the female relationships to the side. Its not always easy and I do often miss the female bonds but its the choice I made because of who stole my heart....
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