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I recently found out my longtime bf is bi. I came across emails by chance. He was looking for men to have "late nite talks" with. He didn't go through with it. He doesn't accept himself. I do. I want him to go to counseling to learn to. I want him to be loyal to me. Yet,I was wondering if it would be wrong to let him be with a man once more before he starts counseling since he had not been for years.
Posted on 10/07/09, 08:10 pm |
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Well, first off, it is absolutely wonderful that you accept him for who he is! Kudos for that.
If he is with you, he should be loyal to you, though. I know that he might be having these feelings, but he is with you. How would you feel if he did sleep with a man? Even if you did allow it, I'm not sure if you would be able to accept it after he did it.... Good luck! It's not easy, but I'm very glad to hear that you are supporting him! 
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Thank you for your advice.
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Yeah, the counseling is for both of you to set up acceptable boundaries. There is a world of options open to you two
Good luck & if you keep an open mind the 2 of you can have amazing sex for life
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If he is looking for other men behind your back then he is effectively cheating on you. Doesn't matter if it is with a man or woman. And if yo let him be with another man, trust me it will not just be a one time thing. I have been down this road now with 3 bf;s.
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