Bisexuality Support Group

This is a common problem with kids your age. As a mother, and as a bisexual, I have to tell you that you must understand - you are still trying to figure out who you are in ALL ways, only one of which is your sexuality. The feelings you have towards other girls may be stronger now simply because you are also trying to emulate them - to be like them, in order to help find yourself.

That doesn't mean you're not bisexual - that's not what I'm saying at all. I just wouldn't try too hard to absolutely define your sexuality so early on in life - you've got a lot of growing to do yet. Every new thought and feeling you have, just take it in, observe it, dissect it if you must, but by all means ACCEPT it as part of you, and as part of the growing process. Traits may change, morph, appear and disappear many times over the years - don't be afraid of any of it. It will all be important when you are finished growing and are ready to take all the pieces and make the puzzle that will be your adult self.

thank you so much for replying.
i totally understand what you mean and it is helping a lot.
its just hard to figure out who i am when i have to keep huge parts of my life secrets from friends and family.

I really feel for you, because at your age I discovered I was attracted to some of my female friends and got involved with them--but then was so ashamed I tore down those friendships and avoided all relationships for 6 years. I thought I knew myself, but I guess I didn't and it took a long time for me to realize that I was just a young kid finding herself. Hang in there and feel free to talk to me all you want ok?

thank you so much, that really means a lot to me. =)