What is Bisexuality
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, and/or sexual attraction of individuals to other individuals of both their own and the opposite gender ...
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Im 14 and have an amazing boyfriend.
But lately Ive been kind of checking out girls and stuff, And I think I might have ort of developed a bit of a crush on a girl in my year at school. Im so confused. I dont know if Im bi or not or anything. I just dont know. Im not sure if I really do like girls as well but I cant seem to pull my eyes away from this one girl in particular in gym. Eh I dont know. Help? Posted on 09/25/09, 04:09 am |
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It's completely normal for even heterosexuals to check out their own sex at one time or another. The best term I know for it is "girl crush." Most girls experience it at one time or another, it doesn't necessarily mean anything.
Don't label yourself too quickly. 
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i agree with megan, its normal for straight women to be attracted to d same sex. and besides, ur still young, psychologicaly, ur at the IDENTITY VS. ROLE CONFUSION STAGE, later when you reach adulthood, ud come into terms about that. dont worry too much, just enjoy the feeling
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heydont worry. i was in the same predicament as you a year ago and i now know im bi, but ive got friends tht hav been thru the same thing and r straight. lotsa ppl have same sex crushes as teenagers - hormones like to mess u around! if u r, we r all here and we'll listen
and support you
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i know exactly how you feel. im 14 too and im sort of in the same position. its just so hard to make a decission about yourself right now.
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Most people don't know WHERE they stand until their mid 20's, until then, just take it as it comes
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I agree with everyone here! It's really natural and maybe you're bi, maybe you're not but you won't know until you explore who you are more fully--and that just takes time. Try being friends with this girl and see where it goes--I would. Maybe your attraction to her stems from a feeling of compatibility that goes beyond the physical. Or maybe not. either way, I think you should strike up a conversation and see what kind of person she is beyond her looks. Hang in there and take care!
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