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In love with my neighbour - does she like me too?
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My neighbour is also bi, as am I but she has a girlfriend. She knows I really like her, and she has insinuated on a number of occasions that something may happen between us. She has told me things such as; she has wanted to kiss me, if a joke is made about something sexual she says things like "oh we'll do that later". If we are sitting watching a film together she sometimes has her hand on my leg. But when I ask her seriously, she always says she couldn't do anything because she has a girlfriend (of 4 years - who she loves). But sometimes when we drink together, she always just stays at mine - and doesn't hesitate to sleep in the same bed as me. Knowing full well how I feel about her & after insinuating things could happen. She also tells me things that other people don't know about her & she ofter complains about things her partner does that annoy her. We are very close (even just as friends). I know it's not a lot to go on - but I'm not sure if she likes me too! What do you think? Any advice would be much appreciated! x
Posted on 09/23/09, 09:09 pm |
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She probably does like you but...if she has a gf...she is probably just flirting. 
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I think Brian is probably right. We all continue to be attracted to people when we are in a relationship. It sounds like she may even be leading you on a little tiny bit. From the sound of things, she knows you are interested. Do you know her girlfriend? This all sounds like pretty dangerous territory. Especially the part about choosing you to vent to about her current...
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....wow.....that girl sure has some good self control......not having sex with you when she stays...............................its obvious from her body language that u talk about that she really likes you............her hand on your leg ect...........................................
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I think she's leading you on more than "a tiny bit", lol. But I agree... she seems to be just flirting. She has a girlfriend, and until that changes, you should respect that. You don't want to be the one to break them up and then have to deal with a possibly difficult or even dangerous situation.
Wonder how she'd react if you got a girlfriend of your own?
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It sounds like your neighbor is wanting to string you along, regardless of her relationship status. By spending time with her, you allow yourself to be strung along. If this makes you happy, then by all means, continue seeing her. However, if it doesn't, find other friends with whom you can spend time and possibly date. Otherwise, you're just stuck in the same cycle.
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Yeah i do αgree with you αll. I personαlly think she is leαding me on more thαn α tiny bit αlso, but there is not much i cαn do. I know i like her but she is α good friend αlso. I found out todαy she hαs just got α house with her girlfriend, they will be moving intogether in α weeks time roughly. So i know now thαt nothing will hαppen, αnd i've αlwαys respected thαt she hαs α girlfriend. So its okαy i suppose. Id rαther hαve her αs my friend thαn nothing αt αll. :)
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