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Hi so I just recently realized that I am very attracted to someone of the same sex and even consider myself bisexual. The only problem now is that I have no clue how to actually initiate anything. I have the biggest crush on this person and don't have a clue how to go about, because we aren't really friends but we talk. I'm just lost. I really really think this girl is a lesbian and once upon a time, (just last semester) may have been interested in me but at the time i didn't know what was going on with my sexuality so I guess i didn't really care and now I feel like she doesn't even want to talk to me, and of course times have changed so I would gladly talk to her because actually i want so much more.
Any advice Posted on 09/22/09, 01:09 am |
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Believe it or not, I think there's a simple solution here. Ask her out on a date. Just don't call it a date--but be honest about everything else.
You have a past with this girl and that can provide you an opening. Go to her and say, "Hey, I miss how we used to talk and hang out. It's my fault we don't because I was going through some stuff. Would you like to go out and do something?" You can be more specific than that, but, from there, see where things go. Maybe it'll all just work out naturally. 
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I can't tell you how many things have started for me with the words"Hey, ya wanna go for some coffee?
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All so nerve wreaking! I'm soooo shy!
but I've decided that I only have one life to live ^_^ I'm going to go for it, But that coffee one my take awhile. I'm mean I really think she a lesbian but what if.... I'll be so embarrassed.
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