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It's Not fair..or is it?
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I have been bisexual since I was 14 and my current boyfriend of three years knew that when he met me. He now won't let me be with another female unless he can watch. I do not think this is fair since the females who like me, don't like him. What do you all think?
Posted on 09/17/09, 02:09 pm |
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I think that we seldom get to have our cake and eat it too. Would you be OK with your boyfriend screwing other women? Other men? Would he be OK with you having sex with men? Sometimes it's the hardest thing in the world to have a balance of same sex/opposite sex attention. If you want to keep the relationship you are in you can't have other women privately. If you want other women privately the relationship you have is doomed to fail
Good luck B 
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Well actually I have been wanting an open relationship for quite awhile. I wouldn't mind at all if he slept with males or females as long as I knew about it. He has most certainly NOT been okay with me wanting to sleep with males and in no way okays it. I just don't feel comfortable with ANY male including him sitting in the corner, doing his thing, watching us.
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if ur gonna do an open relationship, communicate a lot!! thats what my bf and i did for a long time! im bi i had an gf until she cheated on me. if ur relationship is rocky, u r heading for failure u need to have a strong relationship.
u and him need to discuss what is acceptable and what isnt cuz if u dont, ur gonna be wondering why it didnt work and why u and him didnt communicate enough. trust me, honesty and communicating will help in the long run.
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Good advice here. An open relationship is hard work, and he has already set up a boundary that you do not feel comfortable with. Something to think about ...
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I completely agree with communication. But of course it does not help when you don't meet in the middle. I feel if he won't let me have a completely open relationship, I should be able to be with a female by myself and he can be with one as well. I find it fair since I'm bi and we wouldn't be hiding anything from each other. But oh well, guess I'll just have to deal with out. I had a conversation with him before about what is acceptable and what's not and he has still kept me in the dark. He won't tell me how he feels, why or answer any questions involving this situation.
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