Bipolar Disorder Support Group

I found security in my marriage, i guess i used her to much in the end, bipolars need support from loved ones, and i have pushed everyone away now. I cant stand being alone but that is all there is now. I have trouble sleeping alone, ptsd.

Marriage is a contract. a partnership. to gain credit n property & gain collega n career. it is not to be a fitcher.care assitant, bar tender who listens nor our Dr's. & espiaccly not to serve as sounding board.
userly 3rd marriage is for latter yrs soly as a companion.
granted most r married twice in thier life time because they do not know but accept abuse as being normal. & they are also codepenant.

we are to be independant & care for ourself & meet our own needs w/o use of mate.

I have family members who do work in medical field. I will not bother them w my ilness. I have a P-Dr & P- Nurse & Pharmist & service of in home care serbice. cleaning & lawn service. I even have a person who takes my outside waste can to & from curbside. all who I pay.
I have a companion who I love dearly & I will not use.

I have all the required sucurity that I need. I have home security system & a permit & community that I live in has its own partrol sercurity officers & guard gates.
I do not wish to be inposition to half to worry about my mate being iin postion to half to physically stand ground at my place because of me.

Sounds like you

Not the loner there Pen..................my ma was married 18 times as best she remembered and Da 12. I got lucky mad it Once for 5 years. Miss it and Her and son and warm hugs an shit silly giggles and grins...........ohhhhhh whaaaaaaaaaaaa

I've never been married, and I love my independence (I hate people being in my space), but I would also like to be married. Sometimes I hate going through life alone.

I'm lucky!!!!!

I love being married!!!
I love being single!!!!

I was in an abusive marriage for many yrs, so now that I am alone I am happy and contented. I wouldn't count out marriage someday in the future but he would have to be a very wonderful person.

I'm with Carla - loved being married, love being single...

I did learn being married does NOT mean, best friend and I'm well taken care of! LOL

I'm lucky. I will be married 12 years this August to a wonderful man and we have been together for 14 years. We have been through a lot because of this illness, but we made it work. I don't think people realize marriage takes work-all the time. Even when everyone is healthy. I do know however, I would be ok single. I can provide for myself and would be ok. But I love being married.

Me too Mushy