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What do you consider bad behavior?
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I was leaving the grocer the other night, bags in my hands and my kids beside me and this guy cuts me off at the door so he can get in..

now i know when i go out, i look like hell. my hair is a mess, no makeup, glasses on and im lucky if i have any lounge clothes that arent covered in paint. so im no bombshell. but should i blame this for someone not stopping to wait while the lady gets out the door???

so to me, this is rude.. i leave mumbling curse words under my breath so the kids dont hear. but wondering what happened to ladies first??

this type of shit burns my ass.. so what burns yours?
Posted on 04/08/12, 05:16 pm
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Reply #11 - 04/08/12  10:33pm
" @ justletmebe- LOL I think we are twins!!! That sounds just like something I would say. My husband and I can't go anywhere together without getting into it because of my mouth. I just can't contain myself sometime LOL Oh and the retard thing yeah that pisses me off too. My baby nephew well he is two but a little slow and he is so frickin adorable and just the most loving child. He has tuberous sclerosis and if anyone ever called him retard, oh boy it would be on like donkey kong and I would be dropping them like a sack of potatoes LMAO "
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Reply #12 - 04/08/12  11:15pm
" Well, I've got to say, I don't see why a man should do that for you just because you're a female. And you imply that it's even worse if a man doesn't do it for a woman who's all dolled up.

I'll just get burned up because he did it to you in the first place!! Not because you're a woman, but in the circumstance you describe, it just would have been the polite, helpful thing to do, for ANYBODY carrying bags and taking care of kids!!!

I categorize crap like that as 'annoying.' It bothers me for the couple of seconds while it's taking place, but as soon as it's over, it's out of my mind. I mentally call jerks like that 'asshole' and then move on.

A slightly bigger transgression didn't happen to me, but a whole bunch of us customers witnessed it and we were all pissed at what this jerky woman did!!!
This was in Aldi's and they just opened up a new cash register because the lines were getting long.

This BITCH, who was trundling a shopping cart that wasn't just 'full' but was HEAPED with stuff hurried her ass off to beat out a man who had ONE fucking item!!!! (I wonder what it feels like to be that kind of person!!!! Ick!!!)

But the thing that pisses me off the most is when people are being cruel to children!!!!
And I can't even do what I'd LIKE to do when I see it, because you never know if the kid will pay double for it, later!!!

One satisfying time though, I lost it!!! It was in (gag) WalMart and a father and son were coming along and the little boy -- about 4 years old -- knocked a display off the end of the shelf.

A whole bunch of stuff scattered all over the floor.

That man laid into that kid, screaming 'Now look what you did!!! What's the matter with you?!?! You're always doing stuff like this!!'' and all that kind of crap.

The little boy's face was bright red and tears were streaming down his face, but he was doing his best not to show that he was crying.
I was disgusted and angry, but I didn't do anything. At first.

Son of a bitch, if that man didn't KEEP yelling at the kid!!!! Telling him to pick it all up!! WTF!!!?

That's it. It was on!!!!

I have no idea what I said to that man, but I'm sure it was good, because the madder I get the better I am at telling someone off, even if I don't remember it afterwards, LOL!!!

I was livid!!!! And LOUD!! And there was a nice, big audience, too!!
The guy didn't even get mad at me. In fact, he stopped being mad at all. He just stood there, looking sheepish. And then he started picking up the stuff. (Which I take as a good sign. I don't think he realized he was being a prick until it was pointed out to him that what he was doing amounted to child abuse. If he WAS a total asshole, he probably would have started fighting with me)

I DO remember the last thing I said to him. I had starting to walk away but then I stopped, went back, and told him, 'And if you were ANY kind of a man, you would apologize to your little boy!'

Yeah. Cruelty to kids, cripples (whether physical or mental) and animals. That's MY hot spot!!! "
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Reply #13 - 04/09/12  12:07am
" I think it appears people are increasingly rude because they have become increasingly distracted and bereft of their surroundings and other people around them. "
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Reply #14 - 04/09/12  1:32am
" Definatly people who are mean to children... But especially people who choose drugs over their kids.....

I got a call from my mom one night because a kid my step brother knew had a small brother & sister who were about to be taken away by CPS, the mother of these 2 babies wanted Phil to take custody. We did not know about the drugs at this point . My mo wanted me to come down and go to court with her so we could speak to the judge about the court granting my mom & stepdad custody. So the night before when i went down there we found out that CPS had these 2 babies (they were 4 or 5) in a detention center & my mom started talking to this case worker who was in charge of the kid's case. She told us that the girl had had her children taken away several times, this time it was because they found a meth lab IN THE HOUSE!!! This kills me ....This nasty lookin girl I see (The mother) better e thaking GOD that there was security IN that court house....This girl had LIED to us the night before & told us that she didn't know why this was happening ...blah...blah..blah...By the time this case worker is done telling us everything these kids have been through I am shaking. The good news is the kids were adopted y the foster family that had them the past times they were taken away & they were very happy to be adopting them & the kids seemed happy also. The bad news is that girl & her mother walked out of the court room at the same time we did.....Sad for You Bitch!! I am so glad that there were no kids outside because I think I probably cussed her out in 8 different languages as I told her what a dirty bitch she was for putting children through that, I just I wish I had known all that before so I would have had the chance to kick the shit out of her.... "
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Reply #15 - 04/09/12  3:31am
" Arrogance and rudeness and I have no problem telling off those that display either "
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Reply #16 - 04/09/12  5:53am
" lack of basic manners.. "
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Reply #17 - 04/09/12  7:13am
" Ya i think Channel put it best...'lack of manors' "
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Reply #18 - 04/09/12  7:44am
" Breaking the law is bad behavior in my opinion; everything else is just rude. "
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Reply #19 - 04/09/12  9:34am
" People who go in through the out door, and out through the in door.

The people who stand too close, I move away, and move close again! I had a women getting on her daughter for crowding me, but she was standing closer than her little girl.

People who sit next to me on the bus when there are empty seats. Ok, that more of a frustration, but still. "

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