Bereavement - Teens Support Group

Yeah, I totally understand that one, it will be hard but at the same time you will be in love and have your friends and family all around, you could have your mom walk with you or your soon to be hubby walk with you or just say that its your big day, all eyes are on you! and know he is waching the whole thing from heaven, and he knows that you are his little girl, it will be okay.
When I was about 8 years old my dad was really sick and I was scared I was going to lose him, he pulled me in his lap and told me not to worry that daddy would be there when I graduated from highschool and he would walk me down the aisle too, but my he died three years ago when I was 12. Your not the only girl who feels this pain!

I know that's gonna be hard for you, just as it would be for everyone in your situation. I lost my mom when I was 10 to cancer &one thing i think about it who's gonna help me plan my wedding?? That's what a mom is supposed to do! And it makes me really upset that she's not gonna be here for it but I try not to think about it as much because it's pretty far away, or at least I hope lol! I'm here if you wanna talk
xox Carr

I'm am so sorry. I losted my mom a year and 5 months ago and I wish she was here so when I get married, she can help me plan my wedding and stuff. I know this must be so hard for you. Huge hugs!

Hey, it's been three years since my dad has passed and I worry about that day all the time. That's every girls dream, to walk the isle with her dad on her BIG day... Sadly we aren't lucky enough to have that. The only way I have come to deal with the fact he wont be there on my special day is by knowing that when I walk down (alone) I am showing off what a strong person my dad had raised me to be. I know your dad would want you to keep your chin up. I know it's hard and that day will probably be one of the hardest days. =] When the day comes, our dads may not be there, but our future husbands will be waiting there ready to care for us, just remember that.

me too girl. i was thinking i'd have my great uncle walk with me. he's loved me. i'm spcial to him...and he's special to me. i've gotten closer to him some. i didn't get to know my dad beacuse my mom left him but i had a little communicaation with him. every big event like tomorrow for me...is hard. before he died...he had the possibility or the chance to be at a big event in my life..now he never can. it hurts...as i'm sure you understand.

(tomorrow i have to go to college without him) i had to turn 16 without him...and turn 18 without him..graduate without him...do everything by myself...and now i have to do this by myself... and today and yesterday i was thinking about wedding things. i'm with you. *hug*

im feeling the pain too! my dad passed away 5 years ago, i had to watch it i was only 10. ive just realised too, and its not fair!! message me if you wanna talk??

this just made me think...i'm walking alone too. my dad's not gone in the same way as yours, but he's gone. the love of your fiance, your other family anf friends, will hopefully ease the gap for you. take care and peace be with you.

That's going to be so hard. I'm sorry about your loss. I kinda know how you feel. My mom died last year, and I miss her so much. And I realized a few months ago, that she wouldn't be at my wedding. My sister had her at hers. And my brother is feeling worse; the girl he loves the most and plans on marrying hadn't even MET our mother.

My dad just died two months ago. I'm going to have to start/graduate high school, go to college, and get married without him. I miss him a lot.