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I am a 13 year old girl who lost her father on April 1st 2011. When my father died a hole formed in my chest. I feel phisical pain now on top of the emotional and spiritual pain Iv already been feeling. I cant figure out why God does some of the things he does to some of the people he does these things to but I will not let my faith fall fast. I know in my heart that my father is still with me but i cant get it through my head. I need some emotional support and do not know where to seek it from. Im not trying to be needy but people dont understand that Im going through a lot right now. My life is spiraling out of control!
Posted on 05/27/11, 09:37 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/27/11  10:03pm
" Mollie I know what your going thur. I am 17 and I lost both parents last year. Tommorrow will be the year anniversity. It has been hell the first 5-6 months are a living hell. God test our ability to deal with us to see if we are tough to handle lifes ups and downs. Last year was really hell for em not not only losing my mom and dad but u also lost my brother to sucide a month after they left this world. I wasn't the best daughter since I was 13 as I began the life of drugs and alochol and drugs. I never thought before that was a life I never wanted to go back to. Its was tinme to change but I didn't want to change my life that much by losing my mom and dad. Its been hell butmy faith and god has gotten me as far as 1 ywar of soberness and drug free. I have had ups and downs but all thur this I'm doing okay I would say. I'm here if yo9u need someoneto talk to you. "
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Reply #2 - 05/29/11  9:26am
" i know wats u are goin through...i am 17 and i lost both my great grandma and my uncle.. allll can say is talk bout it and just keep ur head up high im here for u wendalynn "
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Reply #3 - 06/04/11  6:44pm
" Sweetie I understand how you feel. I am 14 year old girl. I want to tell you something very important. Even when we are hurting, even if life is falling apart, there are still people all over the world praying for you and thinking about you. I may never know you personally, but I know you need a friend right now. I suggest you try and talk to god about why you are mad. When someone close to me died, I wanted to give up on god, but he called me back. God will help you find a way to heal. I know you can never fix what is broken, but I also know you can be strong, I believe in you girl. I would try listening to music, reading poetry, or painting, they can take you to a world where you can rest from your hurts. Fill yourself up with joy once more, your dad is proud of you dealing with this so well, YOU GO GIRL! "

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