What is Bereavement
Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has a physical, cognitive, behavioural, social and philosophic...
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Monday November 30, 2009
Painful Stories
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GOOD MORNING EVERYONE
PLEASE AGAIN FORGIVE MY RAMBLINGS....I ASK FOR FEVERENT PRAYERS FOR MY 29YEAR OLD SON,WHO JUST GOT TOSSED OUT INTO THE STREET AFTER 5 YEARS WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND,NOT ONLY IS HE THROWN OUT HE IS IN COURT RIGHT THIS MOMENT FACING CHARGES SHE NEVER -PAID AS PROMISED, ON HIS 9 YEAR OLD SON'S CHILD SUPPORT,(FROM ANOTHER EX) WHO ALSO DUMPED HIM...FOR ANOTHER MAN...
SHE LIED...
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I had a major meltdown last night before bed. I didn't even realize I was crying until tears started to puddle on the table. I had things to think about from my last EMDR therapy and I wrote about it last night. It was hard but I think another part has come together. I hope so. This is what I wrote, parenthesis are thoughts: My Son Is Dead Scott... Sco...3 Recommendations13 Comments
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Thank You All So Much!
Thank you for your support through this long and painful ordeal.
My mom is now at rest. She's no longer in pain. My brother took it very hard, and so did my sister. I'm doing OK. I guess it's because mom was here every day and I knew and saw what was happening, while my brother and sister lived so far from us.
Today I'm going to climb to a beautiful summit, wit...2 Recommendations19 Comments -
Sunday Night: It is a little over a week since Melissa died. Her Mom came over yesterday and brought a plant, to me, in an Angel vase and pink/yellow roses for Adam. He was always giving her roses. DAMN! I already miss her so much. She was such a joyful person. I have posted 4 photos. Please take a minute to look. This is just one step un...1 Recommendation16 Comments
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I have been in a lot of pain because there seems to be a war in my head. Things are much more chaotic than usual as Lisa seesm to be gathering strength and she is capable of really making big trouble as she will take money to have sex. Lisa almost got me us in trouble once when she was nearly arrested for prostitution and we have been tryng very hard to control her since then...5 Recommendations20 Comments
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Today was an absolute hoorible day.. Lucas's dad and i went to the police staation to dicuss the results of SHawns ployograph test, and find out the next step in the investigation. We both spoke to seperate officers. When i was done i went home and Shawn was still there. After about an hour of being home the police showed up at my door and told me they had some disturb...1 Recommendation15 Comments
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Well everyone Thanksgiving is the beginning of my Holidays. It was my favorite, even over Christmas. My son Steven always cooked a turkey for us, and we all at at his house. Our bunch, and any "strays" with no where to roost.
Steve committed suicide DEC 10th 2007. So even as depressed as he was he cooked, and did it for all of us.
Last Christams is pretty much a blur. We went to o...1 Recommendation16 Comments -
My Heinze is dying. He has been having little strokes or seizures.
The vet says it is sometimes hard to tell the difference - they have been coming more often and Thursday night was the worst one. He's having trouble walking and he is not eating at all today - he won't even eat liverwurst or bacon.
I am praynig so hard but hes not going to get better - he's almost 14 ...1 Recommendation19 Comments -
Is that my shadow on the wall?
Or is that really me at all.
I struggle so to see the truth---
In bygone days and loss of youth.
I write with ink upon the page,
And see such sadness and such rage.
I don't know what to tackle here---
To stand up tall
Or disappear.
Is that me, still insecure,
Wondering what I can endure?
Is there hope for what is yet to be?
Will I ever be content with me.
I' m not a numb...5 Recommendations11 Comments -
My grieving defines me and I am afraid. Before I lost Max, I was a positive person. I believed in accepting "what is" and making the most of each day. It's now been a year and a half since Max's bicycle accident. While my grieving and sadness no longer totally consume me, they do define me. I am "the Mother of the dead boy" to those I meet...1 Recommendation15 Comments
