What is Bereavement
Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has a physical, cognitive, behavioural, social and philosophic...
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Brads death-one month later again vader
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Yesterday it was one month and what a month it has been...I am finding out that Brad had a secret life and he kept it secret from me.Brad was changing.He was becoming someone that I did not know.And I was always depressed and cranky.Now that he is gone...it was Brad who was bringing me down and I knew that the time would come when we would split like Jon and Kate.Our relationship was changing.He was very secretive about the money.I had to ask him every time for it ...the only time that I didnt ask him for the bread was when the rent was due.Brad was having a relationship with some exotic dancer and Phoebe may i say this...dont expect any bread from me or his estate because his brother and sister had
to take a loan to bury him and I dont have 2600.00.Who does? If Brad didnt give me the rent money for 3 months...i would be penniless and on the verge of being homeless.He planned this all and I will never forget this.This is the ultimate kick in the a........Why? Why after 14 years? Why did he accomplish? I am 61 and I havent worked in 10 years and I have to go back to work part time to make ends meet and I am a bit scared.It is scary now to even get a job in seattle.A lot of people are out of work. Posted on 06/23/09, 12:06 pm |
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I am praying for you, Vader, that you will be able to find something,...just enough to help you make it through.
I know you have been through so much but try to take just one day at a time, that will be easier for you! Love and God Bless! Judy 
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Thanks.The class is good.It runs until July and then we all go to the technical tests.I know that things are going to get better and i havent heard from the land lord as of yet.He told Brad tht the house isnt for sale nor is it in foreclosure and he was working on a new lease.
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Sounds like good news for you all around! Like I said, Vader, take one step at a time, so you don't stress out too much! The grief is enough for you to handle! Hugs!
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Thanks to all who have replied.Today is the 3rd of July.It is 80 degrees in seattle and I am in the house sweating;It is extremely warm..but it was 6 weeks today and i am doing better.Why he lied to me...still hurts.We were together for 12 and half years..I guess those years didnt mean much to him and he has hurt me very much;;once again thanks and do remember that there is life and I will survive this.and a happy 4th...
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