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I lost my fiancée 5 days ago...
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On Saturday, the world stopped turning for me.
3 PM...we were chatting on yahoo messenger about movies and joking, as usual.
Have you seen this movie? "no, love..."
And then silence, forever.
He suffered a pulmonary embolism.
His funeral will be tomorrow.
I am lost, shocked, confused, angry...I don't know what to do with myself without him.
He was my life, my everything. We had so many plans and everything finally looked like it was going on the right direction for us. We were supposed to marry this year.
Posted on 07/26/12, 02:27 am
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Reply #1 - 07/26/12  11:09am
" I'm so sorry. You are Probebly numb. I lost my hubby 4 months ago and I still feel the same. It's a rough road, but were here for you. Stay strong "
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Reply #2 - 07/26/12  11:25am
" I'm sorry for your loss. You're not alone in your grief. I lost the man I was engaged to on December 16, 2010. "
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Reply #3 - 07/26/12  8:22pm
" I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 3 months ago. You are in the right place, the people here understand because they are or have been where you are. This is the place where you can ask questions or just rant. I think I have done both.
Take care
Cathy "
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Reply #4 - 07/27/12  12:20am
" I can't offer words that will comfort you...there isn't anything anyone can say other than I care and send [hugs].

The next weeks are going to be rough. After all the funeral and family/friends return to their lives you will have to adjust. I am dealing with the same thing. My love died 4 weeks ago just as suddenly. The pain is incredible and all the other emotions, the what-ifs & if-onlys, anger, loneliness, and depression. Somehow we'll get through this...come talk to those of us here who know what you're feeling, it helps to be understood.

Stay strong, cry when you need to, and know that you can come here to talk. many many [hugs] to you. "
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Reply #5 - 07/28/12  2:43am
" Thank you for your kind words.
The funeral was very nice and I believe he would have approved.
It's still very difficult, if not impossible for me to come to terms with the fact that he is really gone.
I'm trying to find a logical explanation for the fact that he still appears online on chat, and only with me...he is offline on everyone else's list. "
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Reply #6 - 07/28/12  1:23pm
" I'm very sorry about your loss. I lost my husband in February and it still feels so new (doesn't help that our dating anniversary and wedding anniversary were both in the last two weeks).

Reach out to people both in your life (our close friend's and his family have been great to me) and on here when you need to.

*hugs* "
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Reply #7 - 07/28/12  1:25pm
" Oh and I forgot to add that I see the chat thing as a sign from him. Pictures go tilted in my walls often. Our wedding picture did the days between our dating and wedding anniversary which are four days apart. "
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Reply #8 - 07/28/12  4:58pm
" I am so sorry for your loss. "
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Reply #9 - 07/28/12  5:50pm
" I lost mt husband 11 wks ago. I know how you feel. My husband died suddenly too, here one minute gone the next, it's hard thats for sure. I take it 1 day at a time, some days are ok and I don't cry some days I cry easily. I feel for you and hope things get better, know we're here for you. "
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Reply #10 - 07/29/12  12:21pm
" Today has been so hard, the hardest day since it happened.
I just miss him so much and keep asking myself why this had to happen. "

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