What is Bereavement
Grief is a multi-faceted response to loss. Although conventionally focused on the emotional response to loss, it also has a physical, cognitive, behavioural, social and philosophic...
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Well see thats the whole thing to me. There is nothing to say goodbye to. She took it from all of us. I don't even know why she is putting his ashes there because she has thehouse up for sale. So it's not like I could ever go there and talk to him. I'm telling you this women is messed up. No one wanted to stand up to her. They kissed her you know what. Before he passed away I got down on my knees crying to her asking her to please let me take him home so he wouldn't have to die alone and she didn't care not one bit. I had planted 2 apple trees in the rememberance of my grandfather because that is what we all use to do with him. (to make apple cider). That is where I have been going to talk to him.
Posted on 09/30/09, 02:09 pm |
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The apple trees are a good idea, or some other memorial that you can grieve at. For me, my father died in May and my brother died July 30th. My brother's wife had my brother cremated and my family did not even get to see the urn. My father is buried, so when we go to the place that he is buried, we grieve for my brother there too. And since I can't get to the gravesite too often (out of state) I have set up a fountain in my own backyard that is a serene place that I can think about my father and brother. Grieving is going to hurt no matter what and I don't have to be at the grave or near the ashes to be able to feel my father and brothers presences. Try to let go of the things you can't change, as it will just make you feel worse holding on to those things. Best of luck. 
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