What is Bedwetting

Bedwetting (or nocturnal enuresis or sleepwetting) is involuntary urination while asleep. It is the normal state of affairs in infancy, but can be a source of embarrassment when it...

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I am 13 and wet but need help
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I started wetting last year. But my mom aways thought i just want attention and thats not the case. But because of this she says i need to be treated the way i was acting. She treats me like a real baby now and i just cry everyday. I have to wear diapers 24/7 and can fit it certin ones because im small for my age. Also my sister who is 11 gets to babysit me and she is biger than me so its hard on me. I cant watch and shows that are pg13 or higher and have to watch barney and teletubbies. My bedtime is 6:30, and 7:30 on wekends. If i dont behave i have punishments like spanking all the time and my sister can also do it, then in the corner for 1 hour ad i have to have my hands in the air with 1 foot. If i move we start all over, if i say words im not suppose to i have to write 5 pages of say i will not say *the word* again, and soap in my mouth. Also when i wet/mess my mom makes me tell her what i did by crying first then she feels me and puts a pacifier in my mouth. For the last 2 months i have to sit in a high chair my mom got at a yard sale and still at babyfood and drink out of a bottle. When i get a bath my sister usually gives it to me then drys me off and makes me masterubate in front of her, if i dont she does it for me. I dont want to call any one on my mom but i need help
Posted on 05/30/08, 07:05 pm
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Reply #1 - 05/30/08  8:26pm
" This is either an AB/DL post or a case for child protective services. Either way, I'm unsure what we can do here. "
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Reply #2 - 05/30/08  10:44pm
" If you're serious, and not writing an AB/DL fantasy story, I would say call CPS (child protective services) on your mom. This definitely qualifies as emotional, and sexual abuse (based on the comment about bathtime). Look up the number in your phone book, whitepages.com, or google your states number. what your mother is doing is NOT okay, it's CHILD ABUSE, and needs to stop. Best of luck to you, be safe, and make sure you delete your browsing history, so your mom doesn't see your posts on this site. "
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Reply #3 - 05/31/08  6:10pm
" I agree with Paxton and userwolf -- if this is a true story, you really need to seek help by talking to an adult outside the family who you can trust, or by calling children's services -- they can help you in ways that an online community like this simply isn't able to do. One other thing though:

If this is indeed a fantasy story, I hope you will do us the courtesy of coming out and saying so. I don't deny that AB/DL individuals need their places to vent and get support -- but this site is designed for people who are struggling with genuine bedwetting problems, and many of these people will find it offensive that others will "get themselves off" by fantasizing about what for them is a genuine problem that they would give anything to be able to stop. Plus, it's no good if someone pours their heart and soul into a genuine effort to help, only to be talking to a person and/or situation that doesn't really exist.

Just my 2 cents. "
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Reply #4 - 06/01/08  11:30am
" To me, this has to count as abuse. emotionally through what you are now going through, and sexually from your sister. i'm not sure of what you can do, but what i can suggest is to report to the proper Services. "
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Reply #5 - 04/15/09  12:48am
" If you really are 13, unless you are home schooled, I would suggest you go to your Principle or teacher at school and tell them what is going in the home and refuse to leave the school until something is done. By law, he has to report it. Better yet, if you have a Resource Police Officer there, report it to him. Most schools have them these days.

I agree, if this is not a AB/DL Fantasy story, you are being abused.

Your sister also has no right to touch you that way. "
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Reply #6 - 06/02/09  10:54pm
" I agree with all of the above. Sounds like a TB/AB fantasy, but in case its not call the authorities. School, church, police, welfare, it needs to be sorted out quick. "
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Reply #7 - 06/03/09  1:47am
" what is ab dl ? "
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Reply #8 - 06/03/09  1:25pm
" Ryan,

AB/DL refers to people who fantasize about wetting, incontinence and/or diapers -- or actually wear and wet diapers -- in ways that are not true physical problems, but simply for fun, comfort or other reasons. I know that can be hard to understand for those of us who have real wetting problems that are not by our own choice -- but they do exist.

AB/DL material is not appropriate on this site because it contradicts the purpose of having a support group for people who want to stop wetting, or manage their wetting in practical ways without embracing or advertising it. In order to support one another effectively, we need to be able to tell the truth with one another and to be confident that what others are telling us is true. Telling stories that are not true, or pretending to have a physical problem when someone is actually using diapers by choice or for fun, makes it impossible for those of us who do have genuine problems to give and receive support if we can't tell who is telling the truth and who is just making things up.

I hope this makes sense -- anyone else who has anything to add, please feel free to do so. :) "
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Reply #9 - 06/03/09  7:13pm
" Hey Ryan,
The previous post just about summed it up perfectly. AB (Adult Baby), TB (Teen Baby) & DL (Diaper/nappy Lover) are people who get pleasure from wearing and using diapers, but do not nessesarily need to use diapers for medical reasons.

Some also pretend to be babies or like being treated like a baby. Of course there are lots of variations on how some folk act out there fantasy and I guess that could be a whole new discussion topic.

Are the same Ryan who originally created this question?

Hope this helps, Morph. "
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Reply #10 - 06/05/09  8:54pm
" no im not the ryan that originaly posted the question . i didnt even realize his name was ryan to . i never even heard of that befor until now . i wish i could give one of them my bladder and id take theirs . poof , we both would be happy . "

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